LOL, this sounds exactly like my skids BM.

The guy she was with when I first met DH was a Rock N Roll, Country Guy. So, that's what BM became.

She dated a few young guys. She started dressing and talking like she's in her 20's.

Last guy was a "Red Neck" Country guy. She started camping and carrying a pink camo purse and wearing coyboy boots.

When I first met DH, he did introduce me to a lot of new things. But I'm still me. DH is actually the one that has changed to be more like me. LOL (He didn't own one collared shirt when I met him)

Yep. BM was Sunday school mom with SO because his whole family is deeply religious (except him which I am pretty sure SO's dad blames on me. Oh well :/).

Second husband she was work out queen. She really lost like 100 lbs. and was a P90X fanatic.

Now she is "farm wife" with third husband. Gained back the 100 lbs. Now she just wears track pants and t-shirts. Although she did wear a horrible unflattering dress to MSD's graduation.

SO swears she was on meth when she lost that weight. I wasn't around then so I don't really know but I can't see her doing drugs.

She sounds like Julia Roberts character in 'Runaway Bride'. With each new fiancé she morphs into whatever persona they are drawn to.

Dang do our skids have the same BM? Lol. BM here turned into a country chick that loves hunting, fishing and swimming around in creeks when she met her new BF. DH finds it amusing apparently when they were together he had a hard time getting her ass off the couch to do anything. She would just watch trash reality TV all day and stuff her face. She's just fishing for that ring, once she gets that, she'll revert back to those habits.

She's also trying to be me I think. When she found out I was involved in a pretty unique hobby/sport posts showed up on her Facebook of her attempting it. That was comical actually.

I do not know BM that well.... might have seen her twice in my life...

but she's way to much of a bitch to pretend she's anything else... in her life, it's only her, the Queen of fucked up

BM is on her 6th marriage. If a husband was into poker, so was she. If a husband was into NASCAR, so was she. One husband was a trucker, so was she. Current husband has a motorcycle, so now she's a motorcycle lover.

I mean, it's great to try new interests but none of them stick and they aren't anything she would do on her own or that she kept doing after she split with these men.

Our BM went from a normal average sized woman to a vein popping, skinny work our fanatic from the moment DH started dating to about a year after. She lost at least 50 lbs and likes to post daily pictures of her in her sweaty workout clothes talking about what new workout program she just finished. :sick:
I saw pictures of her when DH was married to her and she was fit and had a nice girly figure. Not overweight and not skinny.

Now she has ZERO butt and looks like a man. Her SO looks like a Oompa Loompa from the Wizard of ozz, Like EXACTLY like one without being a LP.

The one things that cracks DH and I up constantly is the fact that BM and her SO have to match clothing whenever they are out together.

I seriously have no desire to match clothing with DH....Ummmm just NO!

BM likes pink, and talks baby talk, and sleeps with a baby blanket from when SHE was a baby. And drinks box wine out of a sippy cup. She likes to fish (when someone else baits the hook for her) That's about all I know. She was married to SO for 6 years, they were together about 20.

SO is the social butterfly, and has a TON of friends, and a large family. He enjoys going out and dancing and playing, and live music. I am the same way. BM doesn't have ANY social life (except the young guy she is messing around with at work, behind her boyfriends back that everyone except boyfriend knows about, because she likes to brag about it.) and her and Tweedle NEVER go out.

I think she would take on the persona/lifestyle of anyone she is dating, because she doesn't really have anything for herself.

That is so sad!! Reminds me of the scene from run away bride where she tries all the egg plates to figure out which one she actually like because she always ate what her current beaux ate.

Growing up I had a friend like that.
She'd start drinking whatever type of beer her new guy drank. She'd switch cigarette brands to his. If he was country music fan, suddenly so was she. Punk rock? Bring on the safety pin in her ear.

I remember making fun of her for it and pointing it out to our other friends. Looking back now, she was just trying to find out where she fit. Sadly, she never did figure it out and got in with a very bad bunch.
She eventually made it out, but very scarred and not the same person.

I have no idea if she still tries on different personalities but I do know she can't be without a man. No matter how horribly he treats her, she places all her worth on having him.

I wouldn't know if BM changes personas, because over the past 7 years she's dated the same type of guy three (four?) times in a row.

Like, same job (the last two worked together), interested in the same things, same age, same income (give or take...again, all the same job),
looked similar... It's kind of creepy.
** That being said, I want to note that my DH is NOT AT ALL like this series of boyfriends.

The first guy she dated after DH didn't last long, maybe 6 months. The subsequent three lasted 2ish years, give or take. AKA "the honeymoon period." It's like clockwork with that woman. She just broke up with the latest boyfriend. She doesn't usually stay single long, so we'll see if the next guy is a clone of the last 4. Then it'll last another 2ish years. Rinse and repeat.

She seems to be into the ATM boyfriend. I guess that gets old after 2ish years.

I sometimes wonder what the boyfriends think of her still living with her parents. When does that become "weird"? When BM is 40? 45? 50?

All exes have called BM "psychotic" or something similar. Can't argue there.

I guess I should be happy that she doesn't change guys every month like some of the BMs here do. But the last two breakups were hard on SD8. I wonder if BM will ever get married. If she does, I hope it's to some guy who can help keep her crazy in check.