Hello,there first time on here and just need to put some things out there....
So my boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years, but known for 10. He has a daughter 5 years old, and I do not like her mother. His daughter's mother and I do not have good history. Before my boyfriend and I got together we were friends with benefits for a few years. During those years fooling around he was in a relationship, he didn't tell me at all and I had to find out through MySpace at the time. So once I found out I stopped immediately! They were on and off again and during there off times he was with me until he got her pregnant. Probably 4 years ago we got back in touch. They officially broken up but wanted to stay a family, understandable. So a month before we got together he kept asking me and asking me to get together I said no, because of the baby mama and him having a daughter. I didn't want that. He finally convinced me and I said okay. Only a few days into this new relationship he said I want you to meet my daughter, I said no. To early for me,moving way to fast no. He says well I can't take you back home she's coming over right now. And she was okay at first, then I leave. He only gets her on weekends. He picks me up and we go pick her up and go to town, pizza is all she ever eats or wants to eat. So we sit down and hes like good take her to do this do that, can you get her whatever....I was annoyed and said no. He gets mad and says maybe this won't work out for us. Come the next month, I find out I'm pregnant. Of course I'm excited my first baby, but he's not excited at all. Then I find I have to quit my job because morning sickness isn't just in the morning all day all night, then I have stomach cramps. Not like contractions but like someone grabbing your stomach twisting it, pulling it and squeezing it like water taffy. Throwing up everything even water. Couldn't eat or drink nothing, every weekend in ER for horrible pain. Doctors try to find out, gallstones? Gallbladder problems? Apendex? Acid reflux? Dr's never found anything.
Every weekend he gets her, tells me get up shower and get ready we are going out to eat....I CAN'T EAT! I'm throwing up stomach acid because I can't throw anything else up. I try but I just can't stop throwing up. He gets mad at me for not trying to come out with his daughter or spend time with her, just for an hour come out and get to know her. But all she wants is her dad and pizza and toys.
I remember one time we were in target trying to look at baby clothes, and she grabs the cart and goes directly to the toys and pulls any which one and puta them in, her dad says no and she get mad and says put it back in the cart. I want it. And he says not now, and she then hugs him and says I love you, can I have it now? At this time we are struggling with bills and I can't help because I can barely making it into target without throwing up or getting lite headed. So we get home and there she is with a whole new toy her dad gets her which she already has million other ones in her room.