DH made the comment that it would do no good to clean his bathroom until Puke leaves not before saying that it wasn't that he didn't understand what I was going through. Yah, you didn't really understand the filth I had to deal with when Puke was using my bathroom but now you do. He then says that he just tolerates it better than I do. Um, why should it be tolerated?

He goes on to say that there's nothing he can do about her bad behaviors when she's at her mom's for almost a month and unlearns everything. Is Puke learning impaired or cannot retain anything previously learned? She learned and retained that her room has to be cleaned before she leaves. So it is possible.

Then I told him how does she learn when you clean up after her rather than teach her to clean up after herself. Basically saying don't make excuses when you won't parent. You tolerate it because it's easier than parenting.

I told him he needs to do something about her being quiet while I'm working. If it continues, I will go to her and I won't leave empty-handed and things will be convescated while I'm working. He said he thought she should be given a warning to which I asked how many warnings has she been given already. ETA: Just before this he said that he could tell her to be quiet and then 5 minutes later she's loud again. But let's keep giving her warnings so the baby doesn't throw a fit.

It's official! Puke has DH's ball in her hip pocket. That's ok because I have little use for them.