As some of you may know, SD was in and online incident about a month ago and has been stealing my things We had taken away her belongings and she was not allowed around anything that was able to access the internet. She was told that at school she would only be allowed to use pencil and paper, that she wouldn't be allowed to access their computers because that's where the incidents were happening.

There were ground rules for her punishment laid out and she was told what she could and could not do. If it didn't have anything to do with chores or school, she was grounded from it. We took away all of her electronics, all of her activities and pretty much anything she enjoys in her free time. She was told that she wasn't allowed to take anything to her room. The moment that she gets in the house, she is to put her bag and any sweater or coat in the front closet. I told her that if she wanted to act like a criminal in this house we were going to treat her like one.

So this morning I noticed she was acting a little fishy. Last time I checked her room was last Friday, guess I need to check it every day now. Anyway she was acting fishy. I was in my bedroom this morning, she has to walk past my bedroom door to get to the end of the hallway, where her room is. She didn't realize I was in there and the only thing in the direction she was walking is her room, because her room is at the end of the hall. When she walked past my door she froze when she seen me and walked backward a couple of steps. I asked her what she was doing, and she said, " I don't know, just walking in the hallway." Yeah, sure, whatever .So I told her to get in the living room and get her school stuff.

This is how she usually acts when she has something in her room that she doesn't want me to know about. When I search her room I'm like a prison guard. I search under her mattress, in her drawers, EVERY place you can think of. Now some of you may be thinking, "No wonder your kid acts the way she does.", but let me tell you that the ONLY reason it's come to this point is because of the actions she has done within the last few months. I JUST CAN"T TRUST HER. So I search in her room and find more food wrappers, which is a problem but not a big one, I just don't want bugs in my house. However, I find 4 report cards folded up under her bed. Report cards that were suppose to be signed 2 weeks ago. So we are back to square one with this kid. She isn't listening, she is hiding and being sneaky and isn't obeying the rules AGAIN. Her last day of school is Friday and I am SOOO tempted to just pull her out but not really sure if that is an option for my husband to do. I am SOOOO irritated that this kid just keeps on doing the same shit over and over again.

The dumb thing is after she got in trouble for the internet incident I found out about her grades slipping and I told her what they was and that by the end of the year I wanted her grades back up. She agreed. All of the report cards that she hid under her bed so that I wouldn't find were for grades that I had already gotten onto her about and we agreed that she would try harder! Why would someone do that. Okay I'm SD for a second, "Oh no I got bad grades on my report card. SM already knows about it and we have already had a discussion about it but I'm going to be dumb and hide them under my bed anyway. I know I am going to get in a lot more trouble by doing this but I don't want her to see grades that she already knows about." What the fuck?? I don't understand this kid. She doesn't like getting in trouble for something but she repeats the behavior, getting herself in trouble. We have told her MANY times that it will be a lot better on her to just fess up anything she needs to say, and she continuously decides to take that chance to do it. What should I do when she gets home? She gets home at 4:30 and her father doesn't get home until 6:30. I feel she needs to be pulled out of the last couple of days of school so that we can get this figured out but I may just be acting drastic since I'm am kind of peeved right now.