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loveme's picture

Am confused on whether to confront BM or not. This is the problem , she calls DH to inform him that his friend is in police cells, later she calls and this is what she says, "You should take your friend's property and put it in your house"
I asked him about it and he says she has a right to do so which I don't agree with. Should I remind her on he boundaries? This is really getting to me as she calls whenever she feels like, she does not stay with the child by the way. She even wants to talk to him in private and he agrees. Should I confront her and if so how do I start the conversation, am really confused

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not2sureimsaneanymore's picture

Nope. Don't. You're just asking for trouble. Your DH needs to be the one who makes these boundaries, not you. Ding so just makes you look crazy. If he won't, I'd reconsider this marriage if I were you...

loveme's picture

I will talk to him today, when I asked him why she calls and suggest such things to him he said its coz she knew he was her friend and if I don't like it then its my problem, am going to tell him to make a choice though, am actually tired of all this. Will get back to you