My husband got home this afternoon from work and we sat talking for a little while in regards to going to my mil wedding. (mil is getting married next weekend, s5s and bm live with mil) Well Last week I tried calling ss5 to see if he wanted to draw a picture or write a letter or something to his dad for his dads birthday. bm wigged out, wouldnt even answer the phone she had to text me. SS5 does this every year for dh birthday and fathers day. Then he sends it through the mail and i add it in the card attached to the gift from ss and dh and mine son. Then Saturday I get this text from my mil telling me she cannot be the middle man anymore. WTF. We didnt ask her to do this she put herself there by letting bm, bm boyfirend, ss, and her two other sons move in with her. When I told my husband the plans for the next two weeks so that way we could get everything ready to go and find a sitter for the dog, his reply is if we go. I know what this mean. This means something happened that pissed him off and now we are not going. Apparently mil called hubby and started trying to talk to him about the text she sent me about being the middle man and not wanting to choose sides. lol!!!!! Then I asked him what about ss. we have not seen him since july. He was informed that we would not get to see him anyways because bm is being stupid. It is disappointing because i love my ss but im happy i dont have to deal with the drama of the wedding and mil and bm buddy buddyness. Im almost 7 months pregnant and Im already on close eye watch for preterm labor so not going helps me not stress out about being 8 hours away from my dr and most of the drive is nothing but desert.