Thanks everyone! It went wonderful. The GAL walked in and had SD give her a tour of the house. She got there late so we were already cooking dinner..they came back down and GAL had SD go play upstairs so she could "talk to your mom and dad." Then she asked us our concerns etc and we told her. Then she told us that custody wasn't even a concern for her at this point, all that BM will get is visitation and that depends on if she actually gets to talk to BM, who hasn't contacted her at all since she's been out of jail. Every other weekend at most. So..I'd say it went well!