DH finally setting boundaries with SD14 and BM!!!
SD14 had an 8th grade dance this evening. BM went shopping with SD last weekend and they bought a dress together. I think DH agreed to paying for half of it? Not 100% sure if he ended up yet or not.
Anyway, last night at dinner SD14 reminded DH that the dance will be Friday (today) and that BM will be dropping off the dance. DH asked for details, what time, etc. SD14 then told DH that BM also wants to take pictures after she gets ready. DH said "Well I know where she won't be taking pictures. NOT here!"
SD14 then said she wasn't sure where BM was planning on snapping a few pictures. DH said he Dad will be visiting in town and he doesn't want BM over here.
DH hasn't communicated this directly with BM. I would NOT be surprised if she showed up to drop off the dress and just hung out in her car until SD is ready. BM has been DESPERATE for DH to acknowledge her newborn baby. I honestly think this is a ploy for BM trying to "show off" in some weird twisted way.
Should DH reach out to BM directly? Or just take the wait and see approach? I honestly don't understand what is going through BMs mind.
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**has a dance THIS evening.
Edit ** has a dance THIS evening. and dropping off the DRESS
Why can't SD go to her
Why can't SD go to her mothers house and get ready/take pics there?
So she's desperate to show her ex dude the baby she made with her new dude?!?!? Mkay.
She lives 25 minutes away
BM lives 25 minutes away from SD school and uses that as an excuse.
Omg 25 minutes is standard
Omg 25 minutes is standard drive time for most people most destinations
"Like look BM Betty do you want those pictures or not? Then get off your duff and take that 25 minute drive bc otherwise you will not be allow past the street curb of my property for pictures"
Wtf is wrong with this generation of breeders?
Another BM
Want to control everyone life.. BM can do what she wants, when she wants , to who she wants. NO, it's your lifel your home and you control it. CO live up to it
Yes, she wants to do
Yes, she wants to do everything on HER terms. Doesn't even want to reach out and *ask* DH directly, just assumes with SD she can do whatever she wants.
Nope. She can't do shit on
Nope. She can't do shit on dad's time. Dad needs to keep that part of the CO rolled p and keep smaking BM in the face with it anytime she steps out of line. (Metaphorically of course) Her post divorce follow on breeding is irrelvant to DH. He needs to make that abundantly clear to his XW and their shared daughter.