I really wish she would move back to her mothers. The only reason she stays here is dh has no rules, and i am not allowed to put rules of other kids on her because.... ???once again husband and i had an argument, nothing to do with her, however she likes to insert herself and act as though it is all about her. Then she faines a huff and leaves to stay at boyfriends. ( i would not allow this with our other 3 kids) she uses eavesdropping to get what she wants. Sadly she does, and in the ling run this will not do well for her as an adult but i have zero say. Thank God i have my stepson who even after hearing her dillusions knows better and hung out with me and our other kiddos. The only one being fooled is them, my dh and sd. Mil actually told my dh that she needs ti go back to her moms and get out of inserting herself in our adult issues. Honestly dh and her share next to nothing, they actually rarely talk and my dh soends zero time with her, he doesn't want to and she doesn't. It is so messed up. I know God has a plan though at times it is very unclear. Working on nust letting go so i have no malice as they forge this road.