On the good news my husband is finally getting counseling for PTSD having to pull his best friend and brother out from under a drunk drivers car that hit him while walking with husband. sD is still using the situation to get what she wants. However puppy is becoming a dog, and people are less likely to overcome a dogs bad behavior therefore she is having to deal with that. She is flunking her classes, still trying to blame always the teachers. I have commented to husband that the way she trains( not) her dog is not any way his brother or us trained our pets.

Since the day that after manipulated by sd against mil, she sd yelled at her father- once done using me to stand up to mil, to divorce me. Dh told me to let her speak, well i have never been the same, or our two other sons in the house that heard her. They refuse to engage with her at all. Her actions caused a hige rift in our home once she moved in at 16. I have realized that i cannot shop for Christmas for her. Either i would go out of my way and buy something big that would say see i love you or juxtaposition something cheap that would say - there you go.

Recently after our debacles i not knowing if our marriage was headed for divorce called my mil and fil, just wanted easy talk about a new car they bought. However it led to them saying their son is being manipulated by his daughter and that they felt for me and our other kids. What i did not know is that SD had cried( her usual) and asked grandparents for 1700 for a new computer she needed for school. I hates to break it to them but the school gives the students computers and wished they would have spoken to me. Then my Mil an Fil went on to say she then since has only been disrespectful.