Congratulations on your marriage!

Tell your husband not to tell you these things in the future. There is no need for BM to ruin your day as well as his. I didn't find out for years that BM attempted to get my husband to get back with her on our wedding day. He kept it from me and I'm very glad that he did. 

Go and enjoy your new marriage and try to forget about BM for a few days. 

Congratulations on your wedding!!

Ignore BM, just focus on eachother!

on your nuptuals, and glad the day was awesome.

Somehow by virtue of having children together, there are some very toxic BM's who think they own the guys FOREVER, and cannot move on.

We had a wonderful wedding, we eloped, and all day (luckily a remote location with no cell service) BM Toxic Troll was texting:

- Good luck, I hope your happy, your children are crying!

- Good luck, I hope this one works out for you

- Good luck I hope third times the charm for you (hes into 3's, and they were "married" twice - once by justice of the peace, and then there was the "ceremony" with friends and family in his sisters front yard.

- The girls are crying inconsolably.

So - its very common.

Glad that you had the perfect wedding during these tough times. 

F that pathetic woman. Congrats on your marriage! In the future, maybe your DH can silence her alerts at certain times or even block her altogether, especially if she doesn't have the kids at that time. I find that there is no need to have an open line of communication unless she has the kids, and even then it should be limited. 

Wishing you all the best!

So happy for you! It seems that BMs play up on our wedding days.  On ours, DH got a text from NPD BM saying the Walking Wallet (her OH) had attacked her and she had left him.  Oh, and this is our business exactly how?  I imagine she was expecting DH to leave me, dash in on his white horse and rescue her -sorry, didn't happen. 

Congrats!  

As far as BM goes, try to remember that while she was nowhere close to being important to you on your wedding day, your wedding day was so important and overwhelming to her that she couldn't even manage to keep her mouth shut.

Acknowledge the gross feeling she gives you and then move on.  She's not worth the head space now, or any other day, just like she wasn't on your perfect wedding day.  

 Congrats on your wedding day!!! Glad it worked out nicely. 
 

Don't worry about BM. These women are pathetic. I know for fact BM here would absolutely text SO if him and I ever get married. I will block her from his phone without him knowing for the day LOL. 

aka “psycho hcgubm narcissistic pos bestie” called the exwife to confirm we were married and laughed how long our marriage would survive and it wouldn’t last long and how my husband is a fool and hadn’t grown up..

we have been married just over 5.5 yrs.. meanwhile exwife barely into a week of being married to hubby asked for a divorce. Purely because she wanted cash money and more gifts from him before the wedding... me i asked for nothing and got a massive diamond ring she never got.., 

people like this will have karma hit them eventually but they will not change... my husbands sil who called the ex wife was dumb enough to brag how she and the exwife laughed about how long our marriage would survice. Hubbys sis warned him about the sil