So SO has been paying on credit cards that he and BM racked up since 2007. He has been paying $243 every month for 5 years. He still has one year left on them. He also paid off their loan they took out on one of their many houses (13,000) and he took care of misc doctors and dentist bills. Yet she always seems to find something to say he hasn't paid for.... evidently when she takes the skids to the doctor or dentist these days she never pays the co-pays or the balance OR lets SO know that there is a balance. All the mail for these current bills are going to her home. Well a few of these medical bills have gone into collections. And of course collection agency's get everyone's address. This past week SO work was served with garnishment papers. BM #1 called all the collection agency's that had balances from previous bills for medical and gave them SO work place number and address, letting these places know she was unemployed and getting by on ONLY her CS. They also had a home together that they let go into forclosure when they divorced. Neither could afford the $1400 house payment. I'm not really sure what happened regarding that issue as I didn't know him then but when they seperated she told him she wanted the house. That her and her BF could afford it. So he moved out and got an apartment. After a few months of living there she neglected to pay the morgage. WHICH SO forked over the $3000 to pay the back payment. Only to have BM move out. Long story short they let it go into forclosure. I know this isn't responsible and I'm not saying he did a great thing by letting this happen but I think there are many people right now in the same boat. WELL this week along with that garnishment the people who hold the loan for his house began calling his work. Up to three times a day. So she has also called them and informed them of where he works. Then she has the balls to call our home and tell us again he isn't giving her enough money. That he isn't supporting his kids. And now her BF has to get a second job JUST so they can survive. OMG how about YOU get a job BITCH! I am so furious. She claims all the clothes SD17 gets (the miss me jeans the true religion jeans) she doesn't pay for and has no idea where they come from OR they are all second hand clothing because SO doesn't give her enough to be able to purchase school clothes. Yet just yesterday SD posted a pic on FB showing her GREAT buys at the mall this week. And wouldn't you know it there is a pair of $150 jeans in the picture... along with about $200 worth of ONE pair of shoes, perfume, a shirt and sunglasses. Like I have said all along this is WHY there isn't enough money for ALL THREE KIDS.... $350 on one outfit for SD17 is BULLSHIT.

I can't wait for our attorney to blow this bitch up. We are yet again going before a judge. Contempt of court for one. And somebody needs to tell her in detail that CS is for all the things she keeps calling us to give extra money for. And now that there are garnishments on his check we seriously don't have ANYTHING extra. Hell he isn't even going to get a check now.

Funny how she lies to the state collects over a 1000 in Food Stamps and I turn her ass in and she STILL gets away with it but yet here we are trying to do all the right things and getting burned every time we turn around. I am at a loss of what to do now. I understand he can't hide from back bills that the two of them shared. And I know people must pay their bills. But when is she going to become accountable for HER part?

We had planned on getting SKIDS some school clothes to "help" her out even though she is getting a GOD awful amount of CS. And we have had the skids for TWO MONTHS and she is still getting it. But not now. I will NOT give a single penny to that bitch. I have bought skids their unders for the summer and some shorts etc and we bought half of their school supplies and I feel that that is itself TOO MUCH. There is no way in hell we are giving her any more then what the CS order says for anything anymore. My foot is down. And if he even asks me to lift it an inch I am done.

My life with my kids is simple. there is no drama. And I am more than willing to be done with this freaken nightmare if he doesn't stand firm with her.