Why is it that Yuckopotmus want to tell dh what WILL happen on his days???
Yesterday dh took the day off so that we could get some things done before our trip to disney and he had a doc apt. yuck didn't know as she likes to 'talk' to him when I'm not around.
Anyway it went like this
yuck: SS15 has a trip and won't be back til late on sat night so he will not be coming to your house this weekend. He will be coming home and going to bed.
Dh: why can't I pick him up and bring him back here and he can go to bed.
yuck: No that is too far and he needs sleep.
dh: it is my weekend and i think you under estimate him. no big deal to get him in bed.
Yuck: Look I don't under estimate any of our kids and you are being selfish it is not about you. It's about ss15.
Dh: it is not about me but my time with the kids and want to see them as much as I can too.
Yuck: Do i have to clean your plow? I already clean one and I can do another!
Dh: Look here this is getting ridiculous. Don't talk to me like that it is my weekend and you will not contact me on or before my weekend and TELL me what will happen on my weekend and I have the papers to prove it. I will pick him up after his trip.
Yuck: So pathetic that you have to bring the papers in this and again it is not about you it is about our son and I'll ask him IF he wants to go.
Dh: No there is no choice I will pick him up it is my weekend.
yuck: fine i'll ask him like I said.
Dh: If you had plans you would insist on having him for your plans.
Yuck: Ss15 said you weren't doing anything for his bd so he will be happy.
Dh: No everything we do is everyone business. I will pick up so let me know what time he is due back.
Yuck: I'll let you know.
Crap it took for dh having to get a little nasty with her before she would back down. What is wrong with these women. It is true that we weren't going to do much for their bd's b/c the disney trip is their presents but we agreed to take each kid to dinner or lunch to recognize their day. But that doesn't mean we should have to tell Yuck what we do. :sick:
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that sums it up! lol
that sums it up! lol
Dh said that she tries to
Dh said that she tries to make it sound like he is the crazy one and he is the problem and don't care about the kids when she is the one that is really the problem.
what I love about this is he
what I love about this is he is 15 not 5. My guess is he stays up till 10, or 11 pretty much every night as it is. I know that I did at that age. Staying up a little later will NOT kill him or hurt him in any way.
I know right they do stay up
I know right they do stay up real late even at her house. And yes I agree too much convo. But dh was trying to be nice but it just didn't work. I understand where he was going at first. But dh did see that he had to say "i will pick him up it is my weekend"
It is just a shame that he can't be 'nice' with out her going that far. And clean your plow I don't know where that came from but it sound like to me she just wanted to fight and dh didn;t want to but had to get rough before she would back down. It is just sad that she has to do that crap.
I agree that he should get some of a choice however if it wasn't for yuck and her thinking she can tell dh what will happen on his days he would be a little more understanding of the choice for the kids. But he does give them choice like if they have to work or something to that effect. But at the same time dh only asks that if they want a choice that THEY call him and talk to him about it and they can work it out.
I am betting that ss15 had NO idea that yuck texted dh about this and she wasn't giving him that choice and wasn't giving dh a choice she just took it upon herself to do what she wants.
He has told them that too.
He has told them that too. the boys know this too. I am betting that when ss15 gets here and will have no idea his mom texted dh. Ss15 likes to come here and he likes me and loves his dad. As a matter of fact ss15 called dh a while back and wanted him to pick him up to come here and was not happy when his mom threw a fit about it but insisted so much that she let him come.
I know right? I didn't think
I know right? I didn't think of it and neither did he. I will bring that up to him and see how it goes. thanks.
I know that dh wasn't going to just let her not let him see his kid b/c a field trip! How stupid is that??
Thanks I have a wonderful dh
Thanks I have a wonderful dh that sees that yuck is crazy and hates to even talk to her b/c he knows it is something stupid. And he is so glad he is not married to her anymore. plus the main thing is that he backs me up and listens to me and he sets boundaries with yuck. I couldn't ask for more.
She won't he already tried.
She won't he already tried. But he did call ss15 and left a mess with him.