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Very upset today

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Dh just called and said yuck wants to borrow 100 bucks for ss 17 grad stuff. Now the ball of this woman after all the shit she has pulled with my kids and she doesn't have a job. To ask for money!? Borrow my ass I bet I'll never see that money back. The money will be coming from me as I make more then dh and he just used all his for bills yesterday.
It's more of how would she feel and would she loan me money if I had done to her and her kids that she did to me and mine. WE all know she would say he'll no! So pissed

What is wrong with my mother!

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Ok we live in a very small town so I run into my mom a lot in the store or anywhere in town. Let's say there is one road with all the shops and is only 3 stores besides flea markets. So I ran into her yesterday and she told me that she tried to tell bio dad about me when I was 5 but he told her he was married and to not call again. So she changed her mind.

All that did was make her look even worse. And again found a way to upset me like she always does. This time however I didn't say a word I just nodded and said I had to go. I only getting it off my chest. This crap is what

So frustrated. it's upsetting to them?

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How do they think I feel? I was the one lied too, dealt with a mom that never wanted me and then to find my bio dad and hus family says it's upsetting to them? I get that it was a shock I get that they needed time I get that they needed to talk as a family. But it's been a long time now and all I want is to have a relationship that someone wanted me. I'm the one that was screwed out of 40 years with my bio dad. This whole hasn't been easy on me either. Why can't I get the same understanding that I feel the same as them?

I've been gone a while. Ben very busy with the birds and school and u have a night job.

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Anyway as some know I just found by bio dad and we have met 2 times. However my other sister says she doesn't want to get to know me as it upsets the family.

Now I get that in the beginning it would but it's been 9 months for it to sink in. And it's going very slow slower than normal. I'm just feeling very disappointed. Also how do they expect for me to feel it was very upsetting to me too I'm still upset with my mom.

omg an armed suspect is either in the school or around the school that ky 2 stepsons are at

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I just got a call that there us an armed suspect either in the school or in the area. Idk yet they aren't releasing anything else. Ugh I hate this. They are ok they have Bern texting us. But they don't know anything either.

anyone elses dh do this?

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I will buy myself candy or a treat and I normally dont eat it all. So I put it way for later. Then dh will on the weekends we have the boys ask me right in front of the boys if they can have it! WTF? Really? NO that is mine I bought it for me and just b/c I dont eat the whole thing at once like they do dont mean I dont want it later! I HATE that!

I just want to bop him upside his head.

chores and and what age they should be doing what i found this on face book thought you ladies could use it.

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I tried to copy just the pic itself but wouldn't let me. I thought I could attach the pic some how but I don't see an attachment. But I really like this.

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=660394190669027&set=a.1184540915...

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