I've been gone a while. Ben very busy with the birds and school and u have a night job.
Anyway as some know I just found by bio dad and we have met 2 times. However my other sister says she doesn't want to get to know me as it upsets the family.
Now I get that in the beginning it would but it's been 9 months for it to sink in. And it's going very slow slower than normal. I'm just feeling very disappointed. Also how do they expect for me to feel it was very upsetting to me too I'm still upset with my mom.
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I just text bio dad and let
I just text bio dad and let him know I didn't mean to upset anyone only wanted to get to know them. I didn't go in with guns blaring I privately got a hold him and we got a dna test and it was up to him to let his family know.
Agree with dtzy and Former. I
Agree with dtzy and Former. I couldnt have said it better.
(((HUGS)))
I was thinking of you as
I was thinking of you as well. Sorry to hear sister is acting like a skid. Been in a similar situation. Found and contacted my bm, we talked, she wanted no further contact and never mentioned my sisters. I also promised to not tell anyone. So I know I have 2 other sisters I would love to contact but have this stupid promise.
I'm not trying to force
I'm not trying to force anything. I have no other motives except to get to know them. See I have been through a lot myself with a mom that never wanted me and showed with being mean and calling me names. I was lied to my whole life and now I'm being rejected yet agian. I know this is not an ideal situation but can't we move forward and have happy memories? I have been very understanding I just wish I got the same curtsy
One more thing that us
One more thing that us confusing when I talk to bio dad he suggests that we all get together like a bbq or something and it gives me hope but then I get the opposite from others