bm texting....
I forgot my phone at work last night 
so dh left me his phone and he has his work phone. Bm called I did not answer, I texted her
ME (dh): what did you want?
BM: can I call. (I must put in here that dh likes her to text b/c she gets um nasty and not to to the point or talks about her personal life)
ME (dh): no can only text right now.
Bm: No I'll wait
Me(dh): ok it will be late then
Bm: No I meant I will wait another day as I am too busy right now anyway.
I texted dh on his work phone and told him what happened he said it translates into 'not important' and that she is 'busy' b/c I said I (me) was too busy for her to call. I said you nailed it! lol
What I donpt get is why call or text if you can't say WHY in the first place like leave a VM! DUH! :?
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Sounds like an attempt to
Sounds like an attempt to lure him into a real, live discussion. Some people just never get it.
I agree she was trying to get
I agree she was trying to get him to talk to her at work knowing I am not there too. She does that all the time. She for some reason still thinks that dh will leaver me for her and they will get back together. She told him this which is another reason he likes her to text. I also think that she thinks that if she talks to him at work that they have something going on and she has the upper hand on me or something? What ever as I know my dh and he can't stand to even talk to her let alone look at her.
Yep. My FDH would rather
Yep. My FDH would rather swallow broken glass that speak with the bitchwad.
Exactly the text to imply
Exactly the text to imply something important is going on then the need for a real live discussion. Our BM does this all the time. BF ignores is if BM has SD with her she will have SD call and BF answers it. Then its Mom wants to talk to you !! He is finally getting wise to that tactic as well. But he just can't fathom the thought of not answering if SD calls him.
That is what my dh started to
That is what my dh started to do a few years or so ago, he even told her that he will not answer and she has to leave a vm about why she is calling or he will not call back. But then she accused me of not giving dh mess that she left??? :? :? :? huh?? I told her that I am not their sec. and that she needs to stop calling me. That lead into a HUGE ordeal but in the end after the cops called her she stopped but she said it was b/c I was calling her and if I called again I would be arrested. this woman is NUTS! I called her once to tell her to stop calling me.
Yep they can very well be as
Yep they can very well be as her own sis thinks she is nuts too. Her sis is a very nice and sane person. She works for a very well known lawyer here. she has had to so many times call her sis (bm) and tell her that sh is wrong and will get arrested if she didn't stop. Bm called her one time while she was working and called her all kinds of names and threatening her and her boss heard it all, he told sis that if she called again he would bring harassment on her so fast she wouldn't' know what hit her. She is that bad!
Translation : PAY ATTENTION
Translation : PAY ATTENTION TO ME!!!
we try to let all bm's calls go to voice mail. before she would call and yell just to yell or talk about her personal life or god only knows why. after about a year of not responding to any calls that either didnt have a message or simply said its me call me back, she has stopped calling except to cancel her weekend visitations. It's nice. Kudos for handling it well.
I agree. she wants to
I agree. she wants to maintain contact, with him when you are not supposed to be around. Anyone notice that BM also stands for bowel movement???