Skids told their BM today
Skids told their BM today that they won't be moving back to her home at the end of the school year :). BM then processed to do everything in her power to make them feel guilty. The tears, yelling, say things like: "was I not a good mother? Do you not love me anymore? Why's it better at dad's, Ann's (me) there and you hate Ann?" This woman was horrible! The girls got histerical on the phone crying. Do get me wrong I'm sure BM's hurting but she is the one who kicked her 10 and 12 year old out of the house for getting suspended off the bus!
Oh and then the BM started making it sound like we won't allow her contact with the Skids. All I told DH is that I didn't want BM calling on school nights b/c she gets the girls upset and crying everytime she calls and it take 45 minutes to calm the girls down and get them in bed. DH told her she can call them anyother time and that once a week (Saturday 12pm) we would have them call her so she would be expecting the call.
This woman is a work of art! I'm so glad that the girls are away from her. Now they can see what familt life is supose to be like and realize that just b/c cause BM buys them crap doesn't make her a good Mom.
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Similar situation here with SS who lives with us
SS wrote BM a letter and told her how he feels about the way he's treated when he's at BM's house for visits and that he wants to "take a break" from visiting BM...BM has allowed this in the past by giving SS the "choice" of visiting or not because she can guilt him if SS doesn't go for visits but was really hoping to prove that SS would ALWAYS want to visit with her because BM thinks she's WORLD'S GREATEST MOTHER...just ask her
Anyway, glad BM didn't call SS today after BM got the letter because SS would have had the same ordeal as your SK's had. Instead BM chose to send SS an email....a very mean, hateful, hurtful email.
She's such a B**** and I will never understand how someone could act so hatefully toward a child....let alone a child you gave birth to.
"SOME PEOPLE WEREN'T MEANT TO HAVE CHILDREN"
Good idea!
Both girls are afraid of telling their BM how they really feal. That just might work. I'll see if they would like to do that then I'll mail it for them, just in time for Mother's Day!}:)
Don't fear the thorns among the Roses, but be greatful for the Roses among the thorns