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misguided's picture

Question?

Who wants to have sex more, you or your SO/DH/BF etc...

Just curious for me it's my DH, I would say he would be good with 5 -6 days a week and I would be good with 3-4 so not a huge difference but them more I talk with my girlfriends the more I am hearing it's the women who want it more. It makes me wonder with women taking on so many roles today are we looking at it like men do as a way to unwind or are men wanting it less? Anyway appreciate your responses.
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Auteur's picture

hands down it's GG!!! Plus I'm menopausal so sex drive went from 60 to zero in 2 years. LOL!

alwaysanxious's picture

me

Auteur's picture

give it another 10 years and the difference will be noticeable. I was a total MANIAC in my thirties but as I approached peri-meno, NOTHING NADA ZIP!

z3girl's picture

That's tough to answer for me. DH complains we never have it, but he's so particular that even though I never say no, it doesn't matter. I would say I want it more, but he gets "bored" so it's tough trying to keep things interesting.

Easy way to kill my desire was having a baby and gaining weight. The thought of DH not liking what he sees (he's vain) makes me want to avoid it a bit. Sad

Before I got pregnant, we had sex 3-4 times per week, and he got bj's on top of that. Since getting pregnant and having the baby, I can count on my two hands!!! (And again, I've NEVER said no...)

overit2's picture

We both are pretty matched, and both are very high drive. I'd say almost always once a day, kids free wknd 2-3 times a day Smile

Yes my drive has been on full steam ahead from about the age of 27 till now (almost 10 years later)...I'm not looking forward to menopause ughh. I mean if PMS is bad I can't imagine!

Auteur-have you heard of Shatavari herb? I just started taking it to help regulate hormones during PMS which are completely out of control...but I've heard it does wonders for peri- and menopausal women w/sex drive, balances hormones, all kinds of good stuff....I know you may want to look into it AFTER you're out lol-but still something to look into.

http://www.upublish.info/Article/Natural-Remedy-for-Menopause---Shatavar...

http://ayurveda-foryou.com/ayurveda_herb/shatavari.html