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Geema's picture

Last night went to the local college to check out signing up for some summer classes. Then I am going to sign up for a gym close to where I work. My bio son has been cleaning up the house and we are both trying to be "unavailable" as much as possible now. We are not there to criticize when DH gets defensive or frustrated with SS7.

DH has to deal with SS7 on his own more. Since SS7 treats him so badly and acts so differently than everyone else, this puts a big magnifying glass on the bad behavior. SS7 is still refusing to spend the night now ( OH yeah it's HEAVEN Wink ) because DH won't sleep with him all night. SS7 tells DH he wants to sleep with his dogs at BMs house. DH misses him, but he took him golfing yesterday (amazing SS7 can hit golf balls but still babytalks and refuses to use the bathroom by himself huh?). Anyways, I hope it lasts but BM doesn't like having SS7 around that much either, so I know it's only a little reprieve.

At least I'm getting some peace and quiet. Smile

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Auteur's picture

Sounds like you're on the right track, but don't get your hopes up. Guilty daddy is very hard to overcome. Even if they do realize that their children are manipulating them. They don't want to ADMIT it and then CORRECT it b/c that would mean that SM was right all along.

Lovepets's picture

Auteur Smile love you line!!! "The only thing these biodads should feel guilty about is the fact that they didn't wear a condom." Soooo great!

Guilty daddy is very, very hard to overcome, but don't give up! Keep helping him see the light, he eventually will! Or you will Wink