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Had a talk with mom and dad about bros ex wife FUN!!!

purpledaisies's picture

Mom wants to have nothing to do with my bros ex wife and she said she will be nice just so she will let them see the kids. Dad said he wants to be even nicer and buy her a present for christmas. I went off on them both! See this woman is trying to say my bro has been beating her I know for a fact that is not true. We all live in the same town and I I know her habits and everything about her. She was my foster sister before she married my bro.

Anyway, I told them both to have nothing to do with her at all and to not worry weather she lets them so the kids b/c they can see them when bro has them. I also told them that bro is going to get custody of them and has the evidence he needs. Lots of things on video and auto tape.

In also told them that this one the complaints I hear all the time on this board, is that MIL is kissing bm's butt. I told them not to that.

They seemed to understand but we will see.

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ddakan's picture

Grandparents want to see the kids and I don't blame them, but you can't kiss butt just to get what you want. Hopefully it will all come out okay.

purpledaisies's picture

I understand they want to see the kids but this doesn't make since as my bro has had the kids since she left. Plus we are pretty sure he will get custody. My bros ex doesn't want them she did this once before when she left and left the kids with my bro for about 6 months. Bro will more than likely get the kids as his ex will give up soon. She just wants to hurt my bro right now.

Rags's picture

My parents would bring hell down on the heads or whoever tried to keep them from any of their grandkids including my SS. When we made out our Wills my wife gave custody of SS to my brother if something happens to us. I get SS if something happens to just my wife.

Of course her custody wishes in her Will mean nothing to an idiot family law court judge but I would dedicate every resource I have to keeping SS rather than letting the toxic toothless SpermClan get him. If the SpermClan was worried about me coming down on their heads like a ton of shit in a 5 lb bag they would be devistated after GrandMa and GrandPa Rags got done with them if they tried to keep SS away from my parents. My bro would take their asses out in court to keep SS if something happened to my wife and I. Sucks to be the SpermClan if even one Rags is left to protect my SS.

I would recommend that your parents file separately for GP visitation rights against BM. If she is being stupid she might as well feel the wrath of your Bro as well as your parents. They may not get any additional visitation beyond the time your Bro has them but adding a second and separate legal attack to the toxic BM might not be a bad tactic for breaking her sooner.

Good luck.