My bro and his wife are divorced it happened a month ago seperated for 6 mo or so. Bro has custody of the boys. She has visitation and is bitter that she lost. Very nasty to my bro. Bm lives 4 houses from my parents and i have talked with them several tmes about bounderies. they don't seem to get it. they have invited her to christmas and thanksgiving and halloween. they talk to her all the time and they even sold her their cara to help her.

Now we aren't talking about that they are afraid of not seeng the kids as bro has custody nor that they think she got shafted. Bm is on drugs and found to be unfit. I don't know why they are helping her with anythng. She refuses to pay CS. She is bad news.

I don't know how to get my parents to understand that she is not their family. Now this is even more complicated as bm was also ther foster dd for a few months. It was when her mom got her back tht bro and her started dating.

I do get why they kinda want to keep in contact but at the same time this s going to create a not so good relationship with my bro and his kids.