horrible horrible news
So right now I have my little cousin over at my house. She and my SD looooove each other. LOL. They are both the same age and have the same name. It is very cute. Both of them have crazy loser mom’s and live with their dads.
Well my little cousin we will call her LC12, was taken from her mothers care by CPS. This was about 2 years ago. Her mother used to lock LC12 in her room from the moment she came home until she went to school the next day. She didn’t let her eat or bathe or anything. LC12 never told anyone about this. She was afraid to tell her dad because her mom told her that if she did she would get her ass beat. Well one day (her birthday actually) LC12 tells a teacher what was going on at her house. The teacher contacted CPS and LC12 was put in her fathers care. Her mother has not ONCE even tried to contact her. Poor little LC12 doesn’t care about her mom all she wants is to see her little siblings. She misses them very much. Well yesterday she decided to tell me about what had happened to her when she lived with her. I am so glad I had sunglasses on because I was just crying. My poor baby girl had a life I couldn’t even imagine. She told me that her mom’s boyfriend used to molest her!!!!!!!!!!! I asked her if she has ever told anyone and she said she hadn’t! We are going out of town for the weekend and I am bringing her with me. I know that I need to tell her father but she really doesn’t want me to. I hope she wont be mad at me but I have to tell him. This monster can not walk the streets and hurt another little girl. I want to kill him! That is my baby!
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OMG! Where are her sibs?
OMG! Where are her sibs? Are they still with the BM and her BF? You have to tell your DH.
yes you have tell him. She
yes you have tell him. She might be upset at first, but she will eventually see if is because you care about her and her siblings. How horrible. I won't even start on what I think should be done to scum like that.
It is not my SD it is my
It is not my SD it is my little cousin. We have no clue where her mom is now they have not heard from her in like over a year. Last we knew the two younger kids are with her mom still. They are her mom's boyfriends kids not my uncles.
Once you tell her dad, if the
Once you tell her dad, if the law gets invovled it'll be up to them to locate her and deal with the other children.
At least this will get your cousin started in getting the help she might need to work through and learn to deal with what has happened to her so it doesn't cause her even more problems later. I know it's hard, but it's the right thing.
poor baby!
poor baby!
Poor LC12! You've got to tell
Poor LC12! You've got to tell her Dad. Offer to go with them to the police station to report this guy. You can go to support your cousin and her Dad.
I worked for CPS for 3 years.
I worked for CPS for 3 years. Call her father and let him know. Discuss with him a plan to allow her to call with either of you there for support CPS herself, this will help empower her allowing her to have some control over the situation. What happens after that she will have some control over also but at least then it will put others on the path so that no one else has to go through the same thing.
You are responsible to call CPS also even if you report to her father.
I am assuming that she has a case worker or therapist involved and that person is also a good connection for you.
Thank you for the
Thank you for the information. I know and I am 100% going to tell her dad and make sure something is done about this. Because nasty child molesters don't just do it once. I am sure there are other little girls out there and there will be more if this bastard is not put in jail.
I just don't understand how
I just don't understand how anyone would want to hurt her. She is the sweetest child anyone will ever meet. She lived with my family every weekend of her life until she was 7 and I NEVER saw this kid be bad. I just don't get it. She told her mom and her mother slapped her across the face and called her a liar!