I cried on the way home from work. I needed to and it felt good. I composed myself and got out of the car and walked up to the door. DH was on the poarch, I just to cry again, so I rushed into the house, laid on the bed and let go. Gosh it felt so good. Anyway, DH came in and said he wanted to talk. He wants to know why I am so upset and why I worry what is going to happen since we aren't together. I told him that I love him and that Im hurting. He went on to say that he called BM and told her to tell her mother to leave his wife alone. BM kept saying that she can't control her mother and DH told her that was bullshit and tell her to leave me alone. DH also went on to tell BM that they were never getting back together and he wasn't sure what games she is playing but they aren't going to work. BM said she knows and that she didn't intend on getting back with him. Then DH told her that we were having problems because of SS10 and she asked why and he told her about the spitting in the brush incident. DH said she FREAKED out, she was livid and genuinely pissed. He said that BM said "wait until I get a hold of him, why didn't anyone tell me?" and she said a bunch of other stuff too. I asked DH if he told her about the razoring the walls or the book of control or writing about shooting someone. He said no, and I suggested he should. The main reason the brush incident was brought up was because...WAIT FOR IT...SS10 had DH's work cell phone in his room as an alarm clock (because goodness forbid you just buy the kid an alarm clock), DH was called into his boss' office this morning because his work cell phone bill was $267 for the last month. Why you ask? Because SS10 decided to download $267 worth of PORN on DH's work cell on the internet. NICE. And not the Cinemax kind of porn. Dominatrix, gross porn. So when DH tells BM about it she says "I don't want to hear anymore, I don't want him to grow up disrespecting and hating women". Thats when I got brought up, DH told her that SS is horrible to me. Can you believe that? DH punished SS10 and asked my opinion and I said I wasn't saying anything. DH looked me in the eye and said "its too little to late isn't it?". I didn't respond and he went to bed. This really sucks. SS just really wants me out. I gotta stop thinking. This all is really driving me crazy. I can't even function right now I am so stressed and tired.