Dropped my kids off...
With their dad Monday. We have in our parenting plan that we can both call any day before 7 depending on whos house it is. I didn't call Monday or Tuesday to allow them to settle, but I called 3 times wednesay, 3 on thursday and twice today and no answer.
I am not trying to be annoying but the history of this is that he has already refused to return one child after visitation before until i threatend with police, and then right before I dropped them off he was threatening to go to court and saying he wasn't going to give them back...
i still had to drop them off, its his time with them, I did however make him sign what day I was supposed to pick them up so he couldn't try and say I was early or something stupid like that.
At what point can he get into trouble for not taking my calls? He is allowed to call my house any day before 7 and I never refuse to pick up. He just never calls.
This is so stressful for me and I don't expect him to be at my beck and call just because the kids are there, but a call back would be nice, and since we haven't talked since he threatened to go to court and not give them back other than at the exchange I am nervous. Is there anything I can do, should I hold off getting worried just yet or should I be doing something?
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I would call your lawyer and
I would call your lawyer and get advice since he has threatened it before.
Then I would go get a cell phone for you to use before their next visit. Just a throw away one for the kids to hold onto. It will give you some peace of mind.
Keep us informed..
call the police dept and
call the police dept and request a welfare check.
I guess I wonder why its in
I guess I wonder why its in the parenting plan at all if theres no garantee that I get to call.
No it is not that I don't want them to visit, he has them for 6.5 weeks, I gave him and extra 2.5 weeks because I was being nice. The custody agreement gives him 4. I just want him to let me chat with them like I let him chat with them any time he calls is all.
I know he is playing head games wth me, this whole custody case has been about screwing with me not about doing right by the kids, and I know him enough to know its entirely possible he won't return them. There was already twice he kept them from me but caved when I said I would get the cops.
In my state the police
In my state the police woouldnt do anything until after he refuses to return them and his time with them is up. I would make sure to get copies of your phone bill showing that you called but no one answered, and make records.
May I ask how often he see's
May I ask how often he see's them? If its not often and regular that could be upsetting to him.