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BM strikes again

Bradybunchmom's picture

So the latest thing is after standing the kids up on visitation she has called a grand total of maybe two times...but has managed to call fiance at work at least 4 times that i know of to complain about me supposedly not picking up when she is calling. BS! we are home 24/7 and she knows it. We have only cell service we can look at the records and prove she has not attempted to call anytime we havent picked up except for the two calls well after bedtime.

So today she calls up fiance and yells at him cause my bio on facebook says i am a stay at home mommy to 7 kids under 10....and supposedly i dont have the right to put that on MY page. WTF woman! I have been the only mother your 3 year old knows her whole life. I am called mommy by your 6 year old. Your 9 year old is loyal to you, but that is because he was older when you started your crap. She has seen them all what 7? days in the last 3 years! I can too put that I am their "mother " on my page...so sorry for not clarifying STEP to some of them. Good lord lady. She only found my page because she added exes uncle on her page and then her kids on her page. Fiance let them add her...and she got them all exceited about playing with her on facebook.

Then today when she called and didnt get me in trouble like she thought she would she hung up on fiance, and then texted and emailed that she no longer wanted any contact with her kids ever. not to let them call her, she should never have had kids and shes done with them...she deleted them off facebook. Great, so yet again we get to explain her actions to the kids her were all excited and playing with her on facebook the last week. Yet again we get to deal with broken promises.

What a bitch. We are going to get a courthouse marriage and push for step-parent adoption ASAP.

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Bradybunchmom's picture

She is not on drugs that I know of, just a stupid selfish bitch that thinks only of herself. Worse part is she has another kid already that gets shuffled back and forth between her and her equally stupid new man/ex/depends on the moment of the day. She has had CPS called on her multiple times and almost lost this baby. Well he is two now. Maybe she is finally done having children?

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

My skids have a BM that refuses to follow the court that only allows her 1 hour a week of supervised visits. This order is from 2005. She's thousands of miles away now and writes them letters claiming how much she loves them, misses them and prays for them every night. Yet she refuses to follow the court order to be able to see her kids.

But your skids BM has serious issues. Bitch is too nice of a word for her. I'm sorry your skids have a BM like her. Love them and be good to them!

KTL's picture

My step children at 9 and 5 would sit with the LittLe bag packed till they fell asleep in the chair, it was hard I knew she was not going to show up..no call...no computer message, I had to let them do that untill they started to see her for what she was, not dependable. Then I pushed for a drop off and pick up time and so was a little pissed, like well your home right, no not after that, I made plans took them to a sitter when she showed up she had to pay the sitter cuz she was late. He worked til 8:30 that was the time she started to bring them back, with food in a Mcdonalds bag cuz they had not eaten. As sad as it was thoes were my step childrens real parents, I later left him.

steptwins's picture

Exactly. We have no vistation schedule in place. Nothing. Skids are w/us until she decides she has time to take them. DH doesn't ask nor care b.c. he wants them all the time whereas I want EOW at a minimum for the CS paid to her based on joint custody. Is that asking too much? I have about had it with being a SM in 3rd place. BM asked DH for a favor yesterday when she came over for her guns. Wanted him to take her for a 40 minute drive to get a swins car that was repainted. He said "No". Swin is 14 yrs old & she's bought a 1970 Ventura for him. I expect her to send over the bill for 1/2 of the car/car remodeling. What unemployed BM would buy her 14 year old son a muscle car?