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Bradybunchmom's picture

Submitted by Bradybunchmom on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:00am

In the last 2.5 years BM has seen her kids for 5 days, two of which she constantly bugged fiance to come get them because "it was too hard" and "they wanted him".

How disgusting is that?

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TheWife's picture

Submitted by TheWife on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:05am

Whaaaaat? I swear, you should have to earn the title "Mom." Just because you give birth should NOT make you a mother.

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

BMJen's picture

Submitted by BMJen on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:07am

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"If you don’t adapt and look within yourself, you’ll just keep wading in that stagnant poisonous pool of stepparent hell." author: BitchBitchBarbie

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Submitted by TheWife on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:10am

I don't understand what that has to do with my post. What I said could have easily been turned around to you should have to earn the title Dad as well.

I am sure you are a good mother, so what I said has nothing to do with you.

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

Pantera's picture

Submitted by Pantera on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:09am

I thought 24 days in a year was bad!!! She really sucks!!!

"If I turn into another, Dig me up from under what is covering the better part of me" -Incubus

BMJen's picture

Submitted by BMJen on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:14am

I know wife.....that's why I crossed it out so quick! I didn't want anyone getting the wrong idea of what I was saying.

I think the BM brady bunch deals with sucks.

"If you don’t adapt and look within yourself, you’ll just keep wading in that stagnant poisonous pool of stepparent hell." author: BitchBitchBarbie

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Submitted by Bradybunchmom on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:51am

I guess I don't mind that I don't have to deal with drama from her very often, however I guess it sucks I do ALL the work but have to listen constantly to how they want their mom, and their mom used to do....(fill in the blank.) I am sure that will never change, I guess I was just important to them in the same way sometimes.

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Submitted by TheWife on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 11:57am

It may seem like a thankless job now, but I am know alot of stepkids, and when they older they tend to get it. Their eyes open up and they see who was really there for them. Just wait.

~*~When you kiss ass, your breath smells like sh*t~*~

Sia's picture

Submitted by Sia on Fri, 01/29/2010 - 12:19pm

I know what you are going through. SD's BM rarely saw her for years. I think it just makes them more screwed up in the head when they come and go in/out of their lives that way!

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Submitted by Gracefulsilver on Wed, 12/04/2019 - 7:19am

My ex-husband voluntarily signed off on his rights to our 2 kids.  Then he disappeared for 13 years.  Now he wonders why the kids don't want to have anything to do with him.  It's not fair to the kids but it is what is happening out there.