but since I can't prove that she's lying because I did not witness it I am in the unenviable position of having to do the he said she said dance...I say she did it, she says she didn't...swears up and down to BM that she didn't do it. So what can I do...I say, well I know that it wasn't there before you got there and all of a sudden it's there, but since I didn't see you do it, and you swear you didn't then I guess I have no choice but to believe you. The look from both of them was priceless...and I just went about doing what I was doing, because I have thankfully made some strides in this department. See I'd usually have kept pressing the issue, and going on about it until she confessed, and that would usually lead to problems between my wife and I...but you know what, I'm done with that! And truth be told, if I would have seen her do it, I wouldn't have dropped it at all, but she and I both know....shes lying...and she's not getting away with it Later on I took the family out for ice cream after dinner and asked everyone what they wanted...got the order, brought it to the car and drove off. As we got on the highway my wife started handing out the desserts...one by one they each got their ice cream until there was nothing left in the bag...SD said hey where's mine? Gee, it isn't in the bag? I know I ordered it...Hmmm, they must have said they put it in there and didn't...doesn't that just get you mad...so sorry sweetie! So I turned back to go and get the ice cream I ordered and wouldn't you know...they were closed...she didn't say a word...I actually think she got the hint...interesting day to say the least...