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Geez.... Again! Will she ever learn....

imagr8tma's picture

BM has blocked yet another weekend visitation. DH gets 1st, 3rd and 5th weekends. He has not seen SD since the last weekend in January.

I guess since lawyer sent a letter stating he was complete with that portion of the court case - that BM assumes we no longer have a lawyer and she can act out and do whatever she wants now........

Its too sad..... So for now we just continue to document that she is not showing up, getting receipts from the pick up location and keeping her emails. I guess this weekend she must have been upset cause DH didn't even argue with her about not showing up or last weekend (since he didn't get the first weekend). He just asked to speak to his daughter (as BM picked up her house phone - so we know she was not coming - he called at 6 and the meeting time is 630.... and she lives 1.5 hours from the meeting location).

He spoke to his daughter and got off the phone.... now we wait to see what will be said or done by her this week and weekend to block the visitation - should be a make up visit for her taking this past weekend.

She is really digging her grave.... I guess she thinks we are going to continue to allow her to cause drama and take visits without going to court for contempt. Our lawyer was correct. She is only getting worse and worse. I guess the new court order telling her to quit alienating DH has thrown her over the edge.

I just hope she has a good answer for all of it when she gets back before that judge after we drop the paperwork. But more than likely she will pull the woe is me defense and claim my DH is only telling these things to make her look bad. Wow! 6 years (almost 7) of documenting her actions (look back in my blog) against DH is only to make you look bad. No - quit the garbage and just act like a normal mom - the dad is paying his support, being active in the child's life, and exercising his visitation. Geez!

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Sasha's picture

I am so sorry you guys are still dealing with this crap. Worse yet, I can't believe you and DH didn't get custody last time you went to court. I thought it was a slam dunk! What's it going to take for you guys to get custody? I always thought that interference with visitation was grounds for changing custody, but I guess the courts don't think a good relationship with dad is as important as they say it is. No wonder some of these BMs do the things they do...they do it because they can get away with it.

imagr8tma's picture

yeah, she walked away with a slap on the wrist again..... they did add that she was not to alienate any longer and DH got more visitation.... but now we are back in the same boat. So hopefully, the judge will get really tough this time and make some necessary changes.

If not, our only other option would be to move to NC and go back to court for 50/50 or more...... which we are willing to do, if necessary.

********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************