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OSD following in BM's footsteps.....

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Sat, 02/01/2014 - 5:35pm

Just found out that OSD is pregnant again. She just had a baby 6 months ago. I am not sure how far along she is.

BM and DH had skid1 (OSD21) and skid2 (SS20) 10 months apart.

OSD too got pregnant and then got married; same as DH and BM.

There are some pluses in that at least she isn't a teenager and at least they did the "right thing" and got married.

Update to CS issue with BM kicking out MSD

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 01/24/2014 - 2:18pm

Update to this blog:

http://www.steptalk.org/node/176775

So while I was on her bitching about this, DH did call CS. From what he understood and what I understood that you relayed to me is that the only way that DH could stop paying BM CS for MSD is if custody got switched over.

Um okay that makes no sense to me since MSD is 18. Would make sense if she was a minor, but she is not a minor.

WHY OH WHY???? OT Vent

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 01/24/2014 - 12:55pm

My co worker. All she does is bitch and complian. Negative Nancy.

Her husband has had some health issues in the past year. But even prior to that he really wouldnt work or hold a steady job. Co woker has always said "yeah DH is known for not wanting to work".

Co worker has taken on a second job outside of her professional job to pay the bills. She probably works another 30 hours a week at her 2nd job.

I feel bad for her. I do BUT OMG and I am not trying to judge but she BLOWS money.

Examples:

My DH must love me

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 01/24/2014 - 10:35am

I'm working from home today. He is working on our side of town. He told me he was but I totally forgot. So of course when I heard the front door opening I about had a heart attack. My heart is still racing.

But he brought me greasy cheese fries Smile

Injured spouse form- Quick Question & Cheap Place to get taxes done?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Fri, 01/24/2014 - 7:01am

Do I need to go to a tax office to have this done?

Or can I file online like I do (for free) and then do the form then? Or is the form seperate and I have to mail a hard copy?

I always do my taxes online and never have to pay.

This is the first year that DH and I are married, which wouldnt be such a big deal in doing the taxes but he owes BM some arrears so I want to file the "Injured Spouse" form.

Also we have an appointment at H&R Block, but they are so expensive. Have any of you been to other places that were good but a lot cheaper?

Thanks!

What have your skids said to you about BM?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 01/23/2014 - 2:12pm

When things were good the skids used to tell me a lot of stuff about BM. I would never ask for this information. I would just listen, nod my head and try to change the subject.

I wont lie I found it interesting and kind of funny that her own kids were spreading her business. It also made me very aware that the skids will do the same of me and DH, anything that we may say to them or what happens at our house. (anything embarrassing).

What are some of the things that the skids have said about BM?

Here are mine:

OT: VA Beach

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 01/21/2014 - 8:05am

Hi! We are planning a trip to VA Beach at the end of March. It will be just DH and I.

Had anyone been there or lives there that can tell us what we should do when we go there?

Where is a good place to stay but not super expensive. Where are the good places to eat? Where are the must see spots?

Thanks!

BM kicked out MSD18 and GB...

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 01/21/2014 - 8:04am

DH came home yesterday after work and says:

"MSD18 called today and said BM kicked her out and was charging her rent."

MSD18 is still in HS and has a baby. I guess she went back to her BD's house. He too is still in HS and lives with his parents. I think in general it's probably a better situation then being at BM's. For the GB at least. I think her BD is more concerned with being a kid then being a dad.

OSD's excuse

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 01/06/2014 - 4:59pm

See prior blog post.

OSD finally texted DH back today around 3pm. Almost 24 hrs after she was suppose to be here.

"oooooo I totally forgot about our dinner plans. I am sick and after the photos (they were getting pics taken) I came back to mom's and slept. I just now saw your text"

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