help! they are going to be home soon, I don't want them to come home!!how do I get them to move in with their mother without being mean to them!!??

To start my week, my younger ss just came home from a weekend at BM house, and he is in such a fould , selfish,jelous,and petty mood he reminds me of his BM and he will be turning 12 in10 days then he can go live with his BM (FINALLY) sorry but the kid drives me nuts, I love him, but I just want to drop him off on the side of the road somewhere sometimes!! now there is no school on Teusday or Wednesday so BM want's us to take other ss14 because she doesn't want him at home because she will be at work!! HELLO, we will be at work too!!

I love this place , we allneed to vent once in awhile, about our biokids or skids, but who do you vent to about skids, you kcan't vent to the bio parent because they think your attacking their kids!! this place is great!!! I can vent to other step parents who understand and can offer great advice without judging you to be a bad parent but understand that you might be having a bad moment instead!! and Parents who don't have skids don't understand!! they think if you venting your being hateful, not true!! just need someone to hear what I am going through!!

The skids will be here in a few hours and I am begining to feel ill (well I already have the flu) but I just don't have the strength for the conflict that will take place this weekend, is it just me or am I the only one tired of the fighting, lieing, disrespect and being treated like a piece of Sh*#!!!! I know it is bad to feel like this, but I just hate these weekends that no matter how nice you are or what you do for them nothing is good enough!!!