I can't believe it! First my ss11 decided to go to his bm house even though it is not her weekend, all because I wouldn't baby him while he is pretending to be sick, and my other ss14 came over Friday and left Sat for a movie with his girl friend , but all day Sat he was so well behaved and is almost ready to move home again, not quite there yet, but we're not saying anything, he is finally starting to realize why his father doesn't live with his mother (she is a selfish bitch) but ss11 want's to move with his mother and I think that's great the soner he realizes what his mother truely is, the sooner he will not take out all his anger on me! Dad and I took our other 4 children out Trick or treating last night only went to about 10 places, but took them out for dinner (in Costume ,SOO cute) we didn't want them to eat all their candy last night, there were no complaints every one was happy it was a great night!! Dad is such a good Dad!! I love him soo much, I just wish BM was not in the picture at all our Family would be soo much happier!!! Is there any one else out there dealing with a BM who didn't want her kids when they were little calling them little bastards and everything, and now that they are older and don't require a baby sitter anfd she feels quilty for being such a lousy mother wants to take them back and lets them do what ever they want when they are there and tells them what a bad father their dad is by enforcing rules and that their SM is such a bitch!! some days!!! AARRRGGGHH!!!