I don't know whether to laugh or cry...what do you think?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eWBNCnU_PK0

So. YSD was supposed to come for visitation this weekend and didn't.

I asked DH about it and he was cagey...then told me that he texted and didn't get a response but I'm welcome to reach out to her if I want to.

I've always had a good relationship with YSD, though in recent years she's gotten crazy annoying. But I don't feel like I should be getting in the middle of this.

I pressed a little with DH and he told me that he expressed disapproval of her on-again, off-again boyfriend when they were having lunch and talking about the schedule, and YSD left in a huff.

So. The skids came over for a dinner last night and for our present exchange. Only YSD was home for Christmas Day this year, so we pushed it back a couple days to when they'd all be here.

We made steaks and these great potatoes that I do and some veggies...w/pie and ice cream for dessert.

Anyway. DH was really testy with me right from the beginning. I think because, in his view, I was "hiding out" in the kitchen while the skids were here (i.e. I was cooking.)

So...YSD just stopped by with a friend for about 30 minutes on her way home from school. She's a senior this year so she gets out around noon.

No text. No asking. DH and I were both surprised. I have presents I'm wrapping spread out on the dining room table, too...so I had to quickly yell at her from my office not to go in there. She said OK and went down to see her dad in the basement from the outside entrance instead.