Dh got a letter from BM's attorney requesting his new physical address. She is of course entitled to know where he lives and where her children stay but has never in the 6 years they've been divorced bothered to care.

She has been bitching about not having enough money lately but not only does she get more than a reasonable amount each month, she just fired her $1500/month nanny and bought SD11 an iPhone for no reason. Because of her bitching I am thinking that she is planning on serving DH to appear in court to discuss a CS modification.

I had a talk with DH about how I have been feeling and how I don't want to take my anger and resentment out on a defenseless 5 year old. I let him know that I don't want to bog him down by complaining all the time and that it's time that I see someone to talk through my issues.

As we all know, BM shipped SD9 off to live with grandma who lives 2 hours away from us. This weekend is our weekend with them and grandma is taking SD9 to BM's so DH can pick her up when he gets the other girls. He told me though that the plan right now is that he drops the girls off at BM's and SD9 off at grandma's. Two hours away. That means we are at least looking at a 5 hour trip back and forth.

Apparently the visitation schedule got screwed up somehow over the holidays and now we have the SD's this weekend as well. After the chaos and the fighting of this past weekend I don't know if I can take it. On top of it all, a couple weeks ago BM sent SD9 to live with her grandmother an additional hour away (BM lives 1 hour away, Grandma 2 hours away) and I just KNOW that my pushover DH is going to end up driving all the way over there to pick her up and drop her off even though it was BM's decision to send her there with no input from DH.