Lost the Fight
DH and BM went to court yesterday. The date was moved to an earlier one.
DH lost.
Didn't see this coming.
The boys will be going to see her for the summer and staying there instead of coming back to us.
This means when I get back from deployment, my family will be gone.
It was my biggest fear and now it has come true.
I hate to say this but what is the point in going on?
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Oh gosh! I need to catch up
Oh gosh! I need to catch up on your situation but am so sorry to hear!
I am not clear on why you are saying, what is the point of going on? Are these your bio-children?
If not, you will see them again honey. It is what it is, and BMs always seem to win! I am so sorry dear.
Do not let this get you down!! We have limited control, in the best of step situations.
I will pray for you and hope things get better soon. HUGS
Bless you for loving someone
Bless you for loving someone else's children the way you obviously do. My DH & I have been through this as well, & we are making it. We went nearly 2 years without seeing his kids, but they are getting older & wiser. They have lived & breathed BM everyday for almost 2 years & it has given them an opportunity to witness her lies, manipulation, & crappy 2-faced attitude.
Did your DH come out with any visitation order or anything?
((((Hugs)))) & prayers to you sweetie.
Your husband needs you. If you love him & are happy in your marriage with him, he is reason enough to go on. Be there for him. Lean on him when you need to. Be there for each other. Love each other with everything you have. There are happier times ahead.