Our visitation has changed slightly due to the fact that she was playing games. So instead of having SS every weekend, we now get him every Thursday from 6 -8pm and 1st, 3rd & 5th weekends. BF started a new job the last of April. He doesn't get off work soon enough to pick up his son by 6:00pm, so I am now the official picker upper. Which is great, less contact with BM since it is all suppose to be about her. Surprisingly this went over extremely well. I would show up at the scheduled time to pick him up and drop him off. This is definitely too good to be true. The last time I was over there I stayed for 30mins, while she talked in general about her work, SS and the babysitter she has and important things happening in her life. I was kinda tooken back because I am not much for being pals with the enemy. But I took it all in stride and was social, she also made the comment that she would like to be able to get along and be friendly because we are all adults. Well said! I thought to myself. Let's see how this goes.
Well like I said spoke too soon! Last night not even 5 hrs later we receive a phone call from a friend who has no idea who is the baby's momma is. He called to let us know that she was at the local bar drunk and telling people that BF doesn't pay his child support and bumming money from people so she can buy diapers and said I was a "fat bitch." NICE!!!!! First of all the child support is taken directly out of his paycheck each week . Second she can afford to get drunk but no money for diapers. I am so pissed at her! The guy who called only new it was BF, because she was saying BF's name... So now what? I am suppose to pretend that this doesn't bother me? Cause it sure the hell does! I want to rip that bitche's head off and shit down her thoat!!! But that is the adult way of doing things according to her. It's funny cause while she was spilling her guts about her life and family problems, she mentioned how she quit drinking a month ago. So much for that. I know I need to keep my mouth shut and be the bigger person, because she was probably drunk. But, I can't stand how she is trying to run BF in the ground, when he is the best damn father to this baby and would do anything if he could get full custody of him. Sorry to ramble.... I was so mad I didn't sleep well last night and the baby woke up several times throughout the night. I just kept reminding myself at 2:00am, 3:30am, & 5:45am that we have the best part out of all of this a precious 8 mo old little boy. It's nice how she can go, get drunk and bash us while she gives no regard to her son. Time will only tell and she will hang herself with her lifestyle and BF dream of having him will soon come true.
Kim