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S T O P P O S T I N G !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am so tired, everytime I log into this site it is the same two people posting. (Choc, Shopaholic) I cannot believe that the two of you are arguing on this site, considering that it was never intended for this type of use. Everyone it entitled to their opinions, but to post over & over & over & over & over...ect.... I mean really!!....
Off topic: But Great News!!
I just wanted to share the good news.... After only 3 days of searching, I was able to locate my BF's Biological dad and grandfather. BF searched about 3 yrs ago prior to us meeting with no luck. I mentioned to him if he was serious about finding him that I would try to locate him.
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Can't seem to BF to understand!!!
Our visitation is court order through the child support office. We have 1st, 3rd and 5th weekends and every Thur 6-8. When the baby was born, BF was getting SS every weekend and had up until Aug. BM and BF had a disagreement and ever since then she is only going by the schedule.
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Texas Custody Law?
Is anyone on here familar with the laws concerning custody. The Attorney General has already placed joint conservative manangement with BM primary residence. Does anyone know of any websites I can go to to read up on the laws, or suggestions on how to modify the child parent relationship? I sure this can be done, just a little lost at how to get the ball rolling. I appreciate all of you help.
Thanks,
Kim
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DISCIPLINE? What works?
Hi I am curious to find out what form of discipline you have in place or used in the past. My BF has a son that will be 1 yr old in Sept. The dilemmea I am having is SS is exhibiting bad behavior between households. My BF is very involved in SS life as BF has gotten SS for weekend visitation since SS was 2 weeks old. We also generally have SS every weekend and had SS the whole month of July. During the month we had SS, he had very few temper tantrums. Now when we get SS, he is throwing major temper tantrums i.e.
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Saying Mama
How do you keep a 9 month old from calling me Mama? My BF and I have had his son every weekend since he was 2 weeks old. I am very close to his son. In the past 2 month I have developed a working relationship with the baby's mother. This is working out very well for the most part. During this time, while his son is growing, and starting to talk, SS has said "mama" on rare occasions. What few times SS has said this I have always corrected him with "dada". I have never encouraged this from SS, nor do I want to cause conflict from SS calling me this.
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H E L P ! ! !
Ok, this is not so much site related, but in a way it is.
What do all of you think a average sex life is like ??? Meaning how many times a week or in a month span. Be specific twice a week meaning 8 times a month or 5 times a week meaning 20 times a month ect.... Not that it has to happen this way exactly, this is only a basic average.
The reason behind this is I realize life happens and people get distracted from doing the deed.(haha) Such as having kids in your house that are not always there, conflicting schedules, being extremely tired ...ect...ect...
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Calm waters or So we thought!
Our visitation has changed slightly due to the fact that she was playing games. So instead of having SS every weekend, we now get him every Thursday from 6 -8pm and 1st, 3rd & 5th weekends. BF started a new job the last of April. He doesn't get off work soon enough to pick up his son by 6:00pm, so I am now the official picker upper. Which is great, less contact with BM since it is all suppose to be about her. Surprisingly this went over extremely well. I would show up at the scheduled time to pick him up and drop him off. This is definitely too good to be true.
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Some things better left unsaid!
Well what could have been good went so bad, my boyfriend offered to cookout for me and two of my friends for mothers day. Only it started raining. So i told him "WE" can cook in the house. So he proceeded to sit in the livingroom while I cooked dinner. Each time I asked him to do something he acted so put out. But here's the topper. I told him on FATHERS DAY he can cook me dinner, he said why your not a mother.... what a blow. I said yeah your right, remember that when you want me to care for your son. I play mother like I play wife, too bad they don't have a card for that!
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Going by the Papers
Well it is always something. BF went to pick up son as usual (we get him every weekend) and BM wasn't home. He usually picks him up around 5:30pm, but he started a new job and it puts him there at 6:30pm. So he drove to her mothers house, her truck is there but her mom says that she left with a friend. So we leave go have dinner and drive back out there only to see that her truck is now gone and her mam tells him that she had plans and it isn't his weekend. Ok she wants to play that game....
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