Going by the Papers
Well it is always something. BF went to pick up son as usual (we get him every weekend) and BM wasn't home. He usually picks him up around 5:30pm, but he started a new job and it puts him there at 6:30pm. So he drove to her mothers house, her truck is there but her mom says that she left with a friend. So we leave go have dinner and drive back out there only to see that her truck is now gone and her mam tells him that she had plans and it isn't his weekend. Ok she wants to play that game.... this summer we get him for a full month, she was saying the other day how she wants him every weekend because she doesn't think she can go that long without seeing him. Kinda funny she doesn't think she can go that long but it is ok for him too?
Thank God he only agreed to that verbally, cause she has went back on what they agreed on verbally too. On monday he is getting a lawyer so he can modify his child parent relationship. Does anyone have advise? Has anyone else experienced these problems? Any advise will be greatly appreciated.
Kim
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We had this problem
The BM would keep the SS's from thier dad and then later call and tell him to come get them. She lives 45 min to an hour away and when he would get there, she would say nevermind or just not answer the door. We finally got them for visitation and she called to tell us not to bring them back so of course we didn't. Then about 6 months later, we get a call from her attorney that we did not know she had and the attorney told us we're going to court for modification of divorce decree. They had joint legal and she had physical custody but she was going for sole custody. We hired our own attorney, documented EVERYTHING, everytime she refused visitation, made threats, when she called and when she didn't, what she said, ect...
It's been 2 years now and we never gave up, no matter what she claimed against us and in a week or two, I will be adopting the SS's. She is giving up her rights b/c she doesn't want to deal with the fact that she has no control over our household and she cannot manipulate the courts into granting no visitation to DH.
IF IT WAS EASY, EVERYONE WOULD DO IT.