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I hate this Christmas!!!

Texas_mom75657's picture

So my DH comes in today from work and a bunch of questions later I find out he has gotten the evil SS16 a Christmas present. A $100 dollar prepaid Visa and a necklace. Ugh WTF....SD comes up with she preggo at 16 like 3 weeks ago...says she 4 months....in my opinion it's another lie, but I guess we will see in about another 4 months if she's popping out a baby. When he told me that I flipped I told him there was no way in hell we were gonna help her. I mean we barley get by as it is. Needless to say it was a huge fight and he left. Of course I should have left it be, but no my dumbass gets him to come back, but now I can't say nothing what so ever about little Ms. Crazy pants. Grrrrrrrr......she does evil shit to me and I can't say nothing. He never does anything to SD16 except baby her crazy ass. She's just a child is always his answer. He's just a dumbass that makes her worse is my opinion. Anyways back to my venting. He wasn't gonna tell me nothing about this gift at all. When I ask how much he spent on her he didn't want to tell me. AHHHHHHHHH! Oh I wanna to lay into him, but no I couldn't. If he wanted to get her crazy ass something he should have gotten her baby stuff, not freaking money she can go blow. Again, I don't think she's really preggo....I think it's just another one of her little games to make the world revolve around her. Then I find out her stupid ass in coming to his mom's for Christmas....Oh great another holiday with her there. My DH does not act like her father when she is around. I am seriously starting to wonder about him and that. Either he don't have a clue how a dad is supposed to act or I should be very concerned.

I am sorry but I really would just rather him not ever speak to or see her again. That would be so wonderful. I know some are gonna think that bad of me, but I don't care. Everyone is so concerned about SD16's feeling, but WTF about mine. My stupid DH is a dick and says your an adult....BLAH BLAH BLAH....so F'in what I still have feelings. Little Ms. Crazy should have thought about her feelings when she was trying to destroy my marriage and causing me living hell. My stupid DH needs to realize what all she F'in did and stop dismissing is because she's a child. What's gonna be his excuse when she's not a child anymore.

I am not gonna hide outside away from her this time and just let my SS's run wild. I am gonna sit my butt right up in there and smile and speak my peace and dare the little crazy brat to say something. In a way I hope she does say something, so I can see how my stupid DH will handle that crap. I don't think he would do anything to her, but instead tell me I need to get over it. I'll get over it and leave his stupid ass. Well I say that, but my stupid ass loves him and it sucks. It really does suck!

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ddakan's picture

i know exactly! my dh tells me i'm an adult, get over it. as if i don't have feelings? wow, he says, can't you be the better person here....and i'm like WHAT? i've been the better person for 10 years, and it gets to me sometimes I NEED A LITTLE SUPPORT. thank goodness I found yall here.

i love my dh too, but he sure can get on my nerves regarding all things skid related. }:)

Texas_mom75657's picture

LOL...when it comes to the skids mine can get under mine, dance on them, and poke at them so much I picture in my head ripping his head off, kicking it around a few times and then shoving it up his own butt. I love him so dang much it's pitiful. I hear the same exact things you hear...I wanna scream. Be the better person....that saying is getting on my nerves. I'm like WTF do you think I have been doing...if I wasn't little Ms. Crazy would have been committed for life for threatening to kill me in my sleep. No he forgets that part and says all kids say things like that when they get mad....um, no they don't.

Eyes Wide Open's picture

It's probably not going to get any better, either. DH and I had, yet another, argument last night about SD24. I've disengaged, so I don't even bring this stuff up in conversation anymore. He brings it up, starts yelling, and then blames it on me. I am getting sooooooo good at using my "inside voice" during these arguments---I just calmly said, "in case you haven't noticed, I do not discuss your (adult) children anymore. I do not care what they do. YOU are the one who started all of this tonight and YOU are the one who brought it up". DH has blinders on when it comes to his little princess. He condones everything she does, to almost the point of exclusion of SS26. Ironically, today is our anniversary. Do I feel like doing a damn thing with him (other than pack his shit and put his butt out the door?), NO!!! I do not!!!!! The day after tomorrow is Christmas, and I sure as crap do not feel like spending my obligatory 3 hours with his family. This past year has been rough, all because of his kids. It is insane. And, it's not getting any better.

Texas_mom75657's picture

: ( Well I see that is doesn't get any better after they become adults and get a life. I hate to say that I am starting to see that if something doesn't give with DH I may be forced to leave him. I really don't want to either, if SD16 would just go away our lives would be so great. We really get along well and have no problems except SD16. That's the only time we argue or fight ever. For someone that is not part of our daily lives or our daily plans DH acts like a stupid child when SD16 comes around. Grrrrr.....I just don't know what to do. I so wish someone could just tell me what to do, but I know it's not that easy.