So BS7 is starting thereapy as he has had some post divorce issues that IMO were accerbated by ex dragging his GF of 6 weeks on their vacation and then breaking up 2 weeks later.

At the first session last Wednesday infront of BS he tells the therapist that he doesn't trust me and that I had him arrested. So therapist schedules the 2 of us to come in for a parent meeting on the 1st. On Friday he seemed to forget that he hates me and texts me and asks me to make him a vegetarian Lasagna for a pot luck on Monday. I text back and tell him to try Stoffers.

Hi Ladies,
So it has been a while. I thought I would stop in and give an update. As of today I have lost 40lbs. I feel and look great and want to loose another 50.

Crazy ex's GF broke up with him, he sent me an email saying he still loved me bla bla bla. He then got mad and is still blaming me for having him arrested. BS is having issues so we are going back to therapy, this time his dad is coming with.

So i went on my first date ladies. I am not wanting anything but to meet new people and get out while BS is with his dad. I met a guy for drinks Saturday night and saw a movie with him today. Nice guy, he is a professor. I had a nice time, no romance really but more friendly. It was a nice experience with a nice guy.

The hearing went well. We have actually been communicatng with each other pretty well. I can tell he is doing better mentally BUT there are things that let me know that he is just wired differntly than others. I just need him to be a good dad and that I believe he is trying to do.

I thought I had worked through most of it, but I have felt a kind of sad the last 2 days.