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Sweet T's picture

So ladies it has been official for 17 days. Guess what crazy ex has a girlfriend that he has known for 2 weeks this coming Saturday. They have talked about marriage and having a baby and he is taking her out of town next weekend and I think along on vacation next month with the kids.

New girl, as BM1 and I call her is 12 years younger than me, not that pretty and has to have low self esteem. He is an ass and keeps trying to tell BM1 & I about her. He is even so stupid that he asked both of us to watch his lizard while they are gone. We,( BM & I, who I refer to as my sister ex wife) both refused. My oldest step son is disgusted by him. His parents got after him about all his crazy behavior on FB, his cousins read all the posts about the other girl he was dating for 3 weeks prior to the divorce being final to his grandma. Grandma asked me if he had been cheating on me. His dad told him to stay away from grandma and that his mother is embarrased by his behavior ( they don't know of new girl yet). Oh and he got written up at work last week for yelling at the top of his lungs at his coworker who had played a ad practical joke on him.

And he thinks he is cured.

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Sweet T's picture

Oh, and I have lost 27lbs to date joined weight watchers and rediscovered that I love exercising!! 55lbs to go to rocking hot read head! Saturday I am getting a massage and a fascial.

Sweet T's picture

}:) }:) Trust me, he can't finish the job if you know what I mean. I hope when he bangs little miss farm girl he does the same.

Sweet T's picture

Especially since he tried to convince me not to go through with the divorce the night before so we could take a year and then work on ourselves... then it was he wanted to sow his wild oats and date me/sleep with me and date other girls. I ended up telling him that I deserved better then that, I am attractive ( although I am not getting a whole lot of male attention ) smart, funny, have a good job and have my shit together. I will not compete against some girl who is not very cute, never been married and has a roommate.

hereiam's picture

What a loon. Cured? No such thing.

Ya almost feel sorry for New Girl, eh?

I've got your 27 lbs., want them back?

Glad that you are doing so great. Carry on!

Sweet T's picture

Nopers. I am working hard at it. I am hungry most of the time which sucks... But I have my eye on the prize... me.

zerostepdrama's picture

Remind me again how long since you guys initially seperated... it doesnt even feel like that long ago and he is already thinking marriage? UGH

My DH cant ever be alone long either. I know if we split it wouldnt be long before he would find someone else. LOL

Kuddos to you though for your weight loss and working out. Your hottness meter is just going to keep going up and up! WOOT WOOT>

Sweet T's picture

He was arrested for domestic violence on 4/1 so we have been appart since then. He was on e harmony starting the begininng of May. He was in a relationship with some girl from highschool and writing he was her love slave on FB in June.

He is speedy like the wind.

misSTEP's picture

My uncle got remarried TWO MONTHS from when my aunt passed away from cancer. They were married 25 years and had just renewed their vows. They had divorced/annulled within a year Now he's an almost 60 year old man dating a 23 year old....younger than both of his daughters.

Sweet T's picture

I truly don't know or like this guy. BM1 & I ( I am BM2) are really concerned about the kids and how they are going to feel. The boys ( hers) think he is an idiot. My son has NO idea of how screwed up his dad is.