DH has BS who is 12 everytime, anyone points out that the kid acted up, was mean, nasty has an attitude or reports anything other than wonderful things, DH always has to come up with reasons as to why. it's like hello the dam kid is 12 and is not perfect if he's a jerk you can agree but no DH has to give a dam reason oh he's tired it's because of this or that. that's his character etc. we have two other children at home and my 11 year old BD is always the one at fault and is always the one making up stories because the "saint" never does anything infront of his father. SS12 has a younger brother who is autistic and he doesn't treat him kindly either. The father always says oh it's because he's the big brother and has a lot of responsibilty which is BS, the kid needs a reality check big time. i can't stand it, it really makes you want to smack DH because of how quick he is to make it that his kid is a saint and never ever is wrong, says anything wrong, acts out etc. but that it's everyone else. that he's never had a problem with the angel either. help... it's really starting to affect me and the other kids at home my BD is ready to smack the kid and she even wants to go to a different day camp and stay with my parents more when the kid is at home. but my BH thinks that she needs to get over it and that she needs to stop being a drama queen, when in reality it's his 12 the drama queen and the one who always gives the stupid there's something wrong, poor me face to his dad. I've tried several ways to show my husband and even to point out when he's treating his own brother bad.. but this "perfect" kid is really starting to affect me. I love my husband to death we have an amazing relationship we even bring the kids to counseling and the counselor has said to me that the kid is arrogant and stuck up and that brings the nasty out of my own child.
how can i wake my husband up from this haze he is in???