DH has BS who is 12 everytime, anyone points out that the kid acted up, was mean, nasty has an attitude or reports anything other than wonderful things, DH always has to come up with reasons as to why. it's like hello the dam kid is 12 and is not perfect if he's a jerk you can agree but no DH has to give a dam reason oh he's tired it's because of this or that. that's his character etc. we have two other children at home and my 11 year old BD is always the one at fault and is always the one making up stories because the "saint" never does anything infront of his father.