Ring off and SD13 banned from the house

After yesterday's antics and my refusal to be dragged into it I am now refusing to wear my ring until H starts to treat me like I feel a wife that he says he loves should be treated. He has admitted his guilt for yesterday and apologised, said he knows he has to stop calling me nasty names and has emailed SD13 to say respect our marriage or don't come over. All of these are the first time EVER that H has admitted any wrong doing for anything. He doesn't even k ow that I have read the email he sent. But maybe I'm being a pessimist but he could have had this sudden change two years ago. He was still inthe right yesterday. My ring removal has scared him and its staying off and may never go back on. Because I still don't trust him to do the right thing by me. He can't win really

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He's telling his daughter to

He's telling his daughter to respect your marriage or not come at all in an EMAIL? :jawdrop: Seriously? :sick:

Does he often do that, say things that should be considered important through email?

I would love to know what SD replies, though. Let us know when she does?

No. It BM has took them all

No. It BM has took them all away for a month and SDs phone seems to be off all the time. My H never does anything like that at all and as for standing up to the child that controls both of her parents friends and siblings it is a first. Still not sure why he didnt show me the email. She has answered. With a emotional outburst of you love her more ( me) you should put us first. Your a bad dad blah blah blah! Then BM told SD to inform him that as he is putting his wife before his kids then he won't be seeing them again. His response to it all was to not answer them. His phone has pinged twice since and he is not looking at it. Not sure if ignoring them is a good tactic but... Their bullying will get so much worse now. Not confident he has the strength to do this