This morning before I took the kids to school, SD11 asked me for $3 so she could buy her mom some chocolates for Valentine's Day. Umm what? How about if you want to buy someone a gift, buy something for your Dad who is out there busting his butt in 20 degree weather to make sure you have a roof over your head, food in your belly, and gymnastics and trampoline classes every week? SD11 doesn't even fully realize that her mom skipped town because her mom keeps telling her fifty different stories.

As I've stated numerous times in my other posts, BM has left her kids again, moved about 9 hours away without ever communicating with FH when she was leaving. SD11 thinks her mom still lives here and SS8 thinks that she lives 9 hours away. Why? Because BM keeps telling them two different things, so right now her own kids don't know where she lives. Ever since she left she has been playing all kinds of games...sending messages through the kids, telling the kids she is going to have her "girlfriend" pick them up from school, and yet never saying one word about her plans to FH.

When BM was married to my FH, she never legally changed her last name to his. However, she continues to use it and claims to him that she can legally use it (even though she never changed it). Even though she claims this is her legal name, she files her tax returns with her maiden name. He has been trying to find out why child support can never catch up with her when she starts a new job and why her tax return is never taken even though she owes him a couple of thousand.

Here we go again! BM is getting ready to move 8 hours away from the kids and somehow feels that she shouldn't have to pay child support. So FH has to go to court and literally fight to the death to get support for the kids. I'm sure she will not respond to the motion (probably won't even sign for it once she realizes who it's from), she won't go to the hearing, and she won't respond to any communications. And what will the court do?