I think BM might be dying, or thinks she is dying, or want people to think she is dying based on some odd conversations with SS7 and some observations.

last week SS7 got tired just walking around the block.

Right now I am in a little bit of a health kick myself and I know it's not for everyone. I am trying to get in shape for a number of reasons and I feel like DH thinks that I am just picking on sKids. But this week alone I had to let out the waist on both kids pants.

I know at BM's house they eat junk and play video games. SS5 is very high energy but lack stamina. SS7 had nothing.

they are stupid beyond belief I just shake my head and laugh.

This week SS7 got invited to a birthday party and he really wanted to go but it was on Sunday during the time that we usually switch with BM so DH called her, he really wanted SS7 to go because he had NO friends other than SS5 if you can count siblings. He told BM that I had met the kids mother at the library and we exchanged numbers. Her first question/comment.

"I don't think we should let him go, I don't know them and I don't recognize that last name, they could be drug dealers."

I think everyone knows at least one BM (not alway ur SO's ex) that thinks that their child is prefect and their skills as a parent flawless, yet you see issues, flaws and/or would like the beat said child sometimes :).

For me this weekend it was SIL1 and her son NS6. I have never really gotten along with her but I try to be nice. She never has anything nice to say about any one else but nothing bad to say about her 3 amazing kids and in demand hubby (BIL1) unless she is talking to them and giving them 3rd degree.