DH asked me to take Ss8 to his therapy appointment yesterday. He asked BM but she said she was busy. So I said I would, in reality I am pretty much the only one that takes him.

Well Ss8 had some testing done a month and a half ago and additional therapy was suggested. Therapist had been sent a copy of the results but when I got there she came out and asked me what exactly 'we' wanted to focus on in these sessions. She knows that I am the step mom. I was just kind of shocked that no one had bothered to at least call her and tell her their concerns and what to focus on.

that no husband wants to hear... Depression!

My husband heard it this weekend and didn't take it well. It started when he found a piece of paper on the counter with some numbers and comments on it, he asked what it was and I told him that I had set up an appointment for myself to talk to some one about... I just motioned to the kids bedroom were they were. I reminded him that it has been 6 week since they had SS8 test and NOTHING had changed.

Last night at ss8's football practice she was running around with her breast showing and didn't even know it.

Just when DH thought he would never have to see BM's boobs again, he saw them last night and so did everyone she talked to. We had been discussing her recent 'growth' the past few days. I can confirm that she looks bigger because she aparently bought a new bra a few sizes too big. She pulled it off Sunday when she had a tshirt on but last night the low cut top she was wearing allowed everyone to see her boobs in the massive gap between her chest and bra.

And it concerns us a little. It's creepy and weird. Their breakup was NOT mutual like BM would like people to believe it was. They don't get along well together but every time there is a chance to do something just the two of them and the kids, she gets super happy.

It freaks DH out but yet he hasn't really explained it to her bluntly like maybe he should.