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My new approach to ss9's lying

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Thu, 05/08/2014 - 7:23am

Like BM he lies about the stupidest things and it's more annoying than anything. But instead of telling at him or giving him a time out (we have tried both). I just causally point out the flaws in his story and ask him if he thinks I am stupid, becuase it wasn't a very good lie . I figure if he is found to lie he might as well get good at it unlike his mother. Lol.

SS begged me to take him

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 10:34am

It was BM's week so I naturally declined and explained to him that i am just the SM.

This is all part of an ongoing issue with ss9 where he no longer wants to go to BM's. I posted about it no too long ago and I told DH about you comments suggestion in regards to NOT alienating BM or enabling SS. So Sunday when he asked to stay 'just one more night' we told him no, that he needed to talk to BM about it and se has to okay it. DH asked him why he didn't want to go and he just said that he didn't know why, he just doesn't, and started to tear up.

Top notch work BM on your house keeping skills... Not!

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Wed, 04/16/2014 - 7:31am

I haven't been in her house since I was naive enough to let her into my house but I have imagined many times in my head what it must look like, a pig sty comes to mind.

The kids always smell funny when they come over (50/50 EOW custody), like strong air freshener and dog, and look as though they haven't showered days. We don't say anything just toss all their clothes in bags for when we take them back and shove then into the shower even when they claim they had one that morning.

Ss8 doesn't want to go to BM's any more.

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Tue, 04/08/2014 - 10:52pm

It's creating a bit of a moral dilemma for DH and I. Do we go for full custody? Do we tell BM? Do we wait until he is old enough to pick?...

I haven't been posting on here a much lately and it's not that things have gotten better, I have just accepted that BM is an idiot and you can't fix stupid. I think the boys, ss6 and ss8, are also starting to realize how BM is.

The just of it is that we currently have joint custody of both, EOW for a week at a time. BM has always favored ss6 over ss8, to the point that it's some what sickening.

Inquring minds

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Submitted by SisterNeko on Wed, 01/08/2014 - 9:43am

I have always encouraged SS8 to ask me anything and have always tried to answer him open and honestly. Lately his questions... I don't want to say they concern me but they raise some questions of their own.

I know that most of it comes from his failing relationship with BM. She favors SS6 and SS8 is starting to realize that more and more, it helps that she makes it painfully obvious. She wants less and less to do with him or so it seams. But at the same time she likes to make digs at me being a SAHM, I have come to believe that she really wants me to get a job.

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