Enough is enough..
I feel like I just completed a survival challenge or fear factor. I should at least get a T-shir after what I had to endure, Here is my story.. I am 47 yrs old and have been dating my so for about 3yrs. At the beginning of our relationship, I had my own place. He practically lived with me, I rarely went to his house. My so and both ds live with him. They both have kids of their own, that do not live with them. My so ex-wife also was staying in the home. ( I know weird)
The first time I went to his house I was taken back by the clutter. I could see my so was embarrassed and wanted to leave. Later he told me that his ex wife is destroying his house by hoarding. She also allowed her 3 dogs to use the restroom in the house and would leave it. Disgusting. Piles of old dog Sh"""
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Why... are you dating someone who tolerates this
shallow and polluted gene pool shit show. From his X, their kidult Spawn, and himeslf?
You have to care for yourself more than this.
End it, end them, and get on with living your best life. Wallowing in their failed family genetic cess pool is not your best life.
Take care of you.
Let Me Understand This
Your SO, a grown man, has his two adult sons living with him, who have their own kids who aren't with them, and he has his ex-wife living in the home with him also???? No wonder he wants to stay at your place all the time.
Seriously, of what benefit is this guy to your life and the relationship? SMH
How can you date
A man who has his ex living with him. ?..?.. How to destroy a relationship. Cut him loose. Until he figures out what woman he really wants
OP what happened to your home
OP what happened to your home? I hope you didn't move in with him in that hellhole. Why would you want to be with anyone who is still living with his ex?
Can you tell us more about your story because we don't have a lot to go on here.
I wouldn't be dating a man
I wouldn't be dating a man who had his ex-wife and two adult sons living in his house with him. I also wouldn't be dating a man whose home was a pigsty, regardless of who made it that way.
Enough was enough from the
Enough was enough from the very first date with this clown!
part 2..
My apologies, I wasn't ready to post as you can see, and thought I was saving my work, to finish later...
The place was so packed full of BS there was nowhere to really sit. The place was a 2 bdrm his youngest had her own rm and his other stayed in his room. I thought it was odd at first, for a 30-something-year-old to be sharing a room with her father. She basically took over the room since he was always at my house and if he did go home she would let him sleep and go chill elsewhere till he went to work in the morning.
Both ds have severe diabetes, schizophrenia, and drug addiction. They are in and out of the hospital on a regular. The youngest had to be put on dialysis and the older has had to have her toe removed and probably going to lose her foot. Drinking soda and Kool-aid with tons of sugar, candy, and fast food. Whatever they want they get. No structure, no boundaries, no goals.
I ran into some hard times and decided to move in. I had a positive mind at first and really felt maybe I could help ( wrong ) Me moving in meant oldest had to get out of her dads room, this pissed her off. The oldest is a hoarder as well and had the room packed so full of BS you could not see half the bed
Piles of clothes,boxes,suit cases,ice chests,totes,baskets,toys,shoes, etc. Every single square inch of the room was consumed with her SH<>! I felt bad at first putting her out the room, My SO would say "Its his house and his room and not to worry." He would say evrything was cool. Things were not cool especially when he went to work and I was there alone with them. I would count the mins till he got home. Sorry I will have to finish more later.. to be continued..
This is so bad.
Take care of you.
part 3
The disrespect was not only done when my so was at work but also done infront of him, he did nothing to correct it. She would call me a cunt and bitch accuse me of stealing her shit.
Last may my so found his youngest dead in her bed. It was just myself him and the oldest daughter. I started cpr as my so cried begging god to save his daughter. When I blew air in her mouth, she vomited in my mouth. I pissed myself while trying to save her life. It was too late when we found her. She was pronounced dead.
The fire dept moved her into living room and was still working to save her life I noticed that the oldest daughter and her mom went into the youngest room and shut the door. They came back out in a hurry and LEFT! They came back while she was being taken out the home. I stayed in the bedroom in shock and let my so and son say goodbye it was heart breaking and not a day passes that i do not think of her.
This is what I witnessed that day.. she said she was not feeling well, I went to cvs to get her cranberry juice and uti otc meds to help. I did not know that her and her sister got into a fight while myself and so was at work. The youngest told the older daughter that she was a tweeker and nobody wants her around and to get her shit out of her room. They also was fighting over a puppy that the youngest begged my so for. I thought having a dog would be a way to cheer them up (wrong) The oldest would beat the dog and scream at him shove his nose in shit and scrub him in the shower till he was chapped..
My so and i knew nothing about what was going on until the youngest told us hours before her death. The last conversation I had with her was about the leak in the shower that is leaking in her closet. She asked where the cocking gun was and asked how to put the tube in the gun so she can coc the shower. After that my so saw her in the bathroom stumbling around and I heard her tell him " I love you daddy" Her last words I am crying as i write this,,
He helped her in bed and he came back in the room.. That night he accused me of stealing a 100 dollar casino chip ( wich he found a week later in a laundry basket) so while he was talking shit to me, I heard the oldest put the dog in her room and shut the door ( she never did that) the dog was howling and crying to get out the room. i will never forgive myself for not going and getting that fucking dog out her room she was yelling at the dog to stfu and she didnt feel good.
It was around 4am and my so called our boss and told him what happend. I talked to our boss and he told me if someone does not show up to work we both will be fired. He also mentioned that its against company policy for us to be in a relationship.
I went to work with her vomit still on my shirt and in shock.. I fucken went to work to save our jobs. to be continued
Oh wow, this is some
Oh wow, this is some horrendous trauma that you've been through. I'm so sorry.
If you want the support of members on here, then I suggest that you start a new blog post as that will be posted to the top of the blogs page and others will find it more easily. It is just how this website works. If you're just posting to get this out there and don't necessarily want outside input and just wanted to leave your comments all in one post then I completely understand that too.
thank you
I do not know how this works.. I thought i was doing it right ( story of my life) Thank you so much
Part 4
To make a long story short will take some skill here,,, i will try my best. My so took a week off and i went to work. He failed to tell me his ex wife whom he fucked while we was together and lied about. Came over while i was at work to comfort him.. we all know a shoulder to cry on is a dick to ride on. (just saying) I asked him if he thought she took anything that night, he told me he thinks she did as she had an addiction to pills before.
Come to find out her death was fantynol overdose in such a massive amount it was ruled a suicide.I say bullshit and here is why.
Her mother gave her the pills to trade with a booster for clothes etc. that is what they took out her room.
The oldest admitted to me that she knew she took pills because she said she heard her talking to herself and arguing with the voices telling them she snorted 2 pills.
Fact the oldest knew she took pills that day and said NOTHING!! Mind you there is narcan in the home that could of saved her and she said not a fucking word, but told me how her sister and her got in a fight acting like a victim. She also told me the last time she talked with her was that night after my so put her to bed. She said she made her some tea and that she drank it and thanked her. Why tf didnt she say anything??
to be continued
when you are ready.
We are here.
Sounds like you have maybe left already? If not I encourage you to leave.
These people are some serious
These people are some serious bottom-feeders. You sound like an employed, previously self-sufficient person. Everything about your story is horrible. You can do better than associating with these horrible people. And he cheats on you?! Wtf.