I feel like I just completed a survival challenge or fear factor. I should at least get a T-shir after what I had to endure,  Here is my story.. I am 47 yrs old and have been dating my so for about 3yrs. At the beginning of our relationship, I had my own place. He practically lived with me, I rarely went to his house. My so and both ds live with him. They both have kids of their own, that do not live with them. My so ex-wife also was staying in the home. ( I know weird)