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well I had alluded to the fact I thought FS had used my credit card to buy himself something(posted to someone elses blog)..I was wrong. ( and I am glad I am wrong too) My oldest had used my card with my permission(the cc is safe and they pay me for the purchases in cash)(plus I get reward points!) so Bios neglected to mention that he had also purchased something from a company I didnt recognize so there mystery solved -FSS is horrid but I never thought he would sink to thievery. and he didnt.

just when you thought it was safe to go back into the water

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oldest ss shows up at my home.
yup ss thought it would just be fine to waltz right into my house unannounced and looking for a ride, needless to say I was shocked to see him standing in my kitchen when I thought it might be my oldest bioson.
and not only did he make himself at home, he starts using MY computer.
wtf?

well it wasnt as bad as I thought but still bad

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so against my better judgement I did not tell FH my fears about letting his soon to be ex con bioson stay at our house. I will however not do that again, that little bastard came to my HOME and acted like he was the boss. Tuesday the 23rd the weather was awful it took me nearly 2 hours to get home- a ride that usually takes 45 min. I get home the skids were already there, (so much for relaxing), as I was taking off my wet shoes, goodfornutin comes up behind me and starts talking over my head like I wasnt even there.

so much for my quiet time before the holiday stress

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Just talked to FH, he got off work early and guess what he wants to bring the kids over early too. I was looking forward to getting home relaxing with a glass of wine BEFORE all the stress of stepkids for the holiday would take effect.
I do understand that he wants to be with his kids it is just disappointing that I miss out on my destressor.
happy holidays..

aahh tiz the season FSS appears

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well guess what..we got a call from FSS ...he passed his GED but still doesnt have a job and still mooching off everyone BUT US!!!
wanted to give his xmas gift list oh and to be sure to get a ride to Xmas eve at FMIL house.
wow why am I not suprised to have heard from him.
Christmas just brings them all home doesnt it.
My Xmas eve will be intersting.
and I am SURE he will want to spend the night on Tuesday...
gawd sometimes I hate my life.
thanks for letting me vent

hmmm FSS is sabotaging my wedding?

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Just got an intersting email from FMIL she states that FSS stb 19 is doing what he can to keep FH and me from getting married. This is the kid who doesnt have a job smokes all kinds of things drinks- 9 grade education..and he thinks he is smart enough to do WHAT?
seems like FSS doesnt like the fact that I make FH stick to the rules that we both agreed on. So FSS thinks if he ignores his dadand goes to live with the mom maybe turn siblings against us that he will stop the wedding.

moocher story part duex LONG

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Ok so after 2 hours of little lord fauntleroy and daddy arguing and getting NO WHERE AND I MEAN no where, step mommy dearest had enuf. I waltzed in (more like stormed) and told his lordship that I did not care what he thought or what he expected, we were done. He has not earned the right to anything in our home and that his dad and I were fed up with his attitude and until he could prove to us that he wanted to be at our house and be part of the family he was not welcomed. and get this...

good bye to moocher (for now) long part 1

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Ok so where to begin. FSS had been MIA for a few days before Thanksgiving, this is still AFTER the inital talk about him taking on some responsibility and to help around the house when he decides to grace us with his presence. IE> if he wants to do laundry he needs to call plus he will need to help around the house in order to have the privelge of washing his clothes.

what I am thankful for

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My life hasnt been very much fun lately and sometimes it has been just down right shi**y but I am thankful for the friends I have made here on StepTalk. I am thankful for all of you and all the knowledge that all of you are willing to share with virtual strangers.
thank you my FRIENDS!!

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